Telling a young girls to go away

D.R cowboy

Hey guys

I thought this would be the best place to post this.

i'm 21 and i just did my leaving cert again for the third and final time this year, however I was doing it in a grind school in Dublin. I meet 2 girls how were 17 and I had a casual sexual relationship with each of them for awhile, but school has finished now , so how do i tell them to get lost and to stop talking to me in the street, as its quiet embarrassing when I'm with girls who are in college.

Shouldn't of had sexual relationships with them in the first place.

Just tell them to leave you alone. There not that young anyways.

coolmoose

i wish i had problems like this. just tell them OP, they're not that young, don't expect them to be friendly towards you again though!

Doc

D.R cowboy wrote: »

Hey guys

I thought this would be the best place to post this.

i'm 21 and i just did my leaving cert again for the third and final time this year, however I was doing it in a grind school in Dublin. I meet 2 girls how were 17 and I had a casual sexual relationship with each of them for awhile, but school has finished now , so how do i tell them to get lost and to stop talking to me in the street, as its quiet embarrassing when I'm with girls who are in college.

If these girls where good enough for you to sleep with, then they should be good enough for you to talk to. Your attitude is appalling and there is no nice way for you to do this because it is not a nice thing you want to do.

Hank_Jones

I'm sorry, but I would imagine this ''story'' is not true.

Starting to think you're a compulsive liar.

dan_d

Can't have your cake and eat it.Presume these girls will be starting college at the same time as you, making them "college girls" too. I highly doubt that they're just "coming up to you on the street and talking to you".

If they are - tough.

Giblet

It's embarrassing reading how childish you are.

Gone Drinking

They had sex with a 21 year old who's just repeated his leaving cert for the 3rd time and YOU'RE embarrassed to be caught talking to them?

I'm surprised they're not the ones who are embarrassed.

With a mentality like that, i'm amazed any women will talk to you.

Nevyn

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D.R cowboy

Gone Drinking wrote: »

They had sex with a 21 year old who's just repeated his leaving cert for the 3rd time and YOU'RE embarrassed to be caught talking to them?

I'm surprised they're not the ones who are embarrassed.

With a mentality like that, i'm amazed any women will talk to you.

Yeah its easy to say that , but this girls act so immature in pubic, they start jumping around and are quiet loud too.

Denerick

D.R cowboy wrote: »

quiet loud too.

You're not fooling anybody. I admire the way you deliberately mis-spelt 'quite' so as to create a paradox.

Nevyn

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Nevyn

D.R cowboy you have a couple of options, depends on how much of an arshole you want to be and how likely they are go bad mouth you afterwards.

I would suggest you tell them that it was fun while it lasted and that your moving on with your life and they are not your friends so you won't be hanging out with them or in touch with them again.

Be a gent about it if possible and hopefully they will take the hint.

WindSock

D.R cowboy wrote: »

so how do i tell them to get lost and to stop talking to me in the street, as its quiet embarrassing when I'm with girls who are in college.

What is your problem exactly? The fact that 2 girls you were with come up to you on the street to talk to you? Why does this bother you so much?

muboop1

Quick check at some of you other posts and I have no doubts as to the trolling issue that was mentioned above. However for the purpose of my answer I will go against my inclination and first assume all you said is true

If you do not want to talk to them don't.

However do you know or think they are going to be in your course or even university next year? ( I see you want to go to Trinity as its in the family? don't care on the course even?)

If they aren't in you university or IT or where ever you end up, this firstly is not an issue. Realistically unless you end up in a class with them you are fine.

As for what other girls will think if they see you talk with them? Mate girls will not think a thing. Nobody would probably care who you talk with. However if you act the d1ck they will care and they will likely think you are a d1ck.

Also regarding the girls immaturity, you will meet alot of people like this is university especially in first year so best you learn some social skills and how to exit a conversation with people you don't want to talk to in a decent manner or else be seen as a d1ck in general.

Simple truth is, you repeated or done the LC three times. In your class 90% will be about 17 or 18 years old. You will be the same age as the third years. Alot of people will be immature You *may* (and I stress "may" judging by your other posts) be a lot more mature than the majority of them and will need to learn to deal with these type of people... But surely since you are in class with the "year" now you already are dealing with them no?

Look, just be yourself and be happy. Always be polite and you'll be grand.


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Bottle_of_Smoke

On the 1% off chance this isn't a troll . . . . Don't burn your bridges you fool. They'll be college girls sooner or later with college mates. You don't want a reputation of being a complete aresehole

Why would it be embarrassing in front of girls from college?

TwoShedsJackson

D.R cowboy wrote: »

Yeah its easy to say that , but this girls act so immature in pubic

Arf

D.R cowboy

Thaedydal wrote: »

D.R cowboy you have a couple of options, depends on how much of an arshole you want to be and how likely they are go bad mouth you afterwards.

I would suggest you tell them that it was fun while it lasted and that your moving on with your life and they are not your friends so you won't be hanging out with them or in touch with them again.

Be a gent about it if possible and hopefully they will take the hint.

Thanks for the advice I think you are right.

D.R cowboy

muboop1 wrote: »

Quick check at some of you other posts and I have no doubts as to the trolling issue that was mentioned above. However for the purpose of my answer I will go against my inclination and first assume all you said is true

If you do not want to talk to them don't.


However do you know or think they are going to be in your course or even university next year? ( I see you want to go to Trinity as its in the family? don't care on the course even?)

If they aren't in you university or IT or where ever you end up, this firstly is not an issue. Realistically unless you end up in a class with them you are fine.

As for what other girls will think if they see you talk with them? Mate girls will not think a thing. Nobody would probably care who you talk with. However if you act the d1ck they will care and they will likely think you are a d1ck.

Also regarding the girls immaturity, you will meet alot of people like this is university especially in first year so best you learn some social skills and how to exit a conversation with people you don't want to talk to in a decent manner or else be seen as a d1ck in general.

You *may* (and I stress "may" judging by your other posts) be a lot more mature than the majority of them and will need to learn to deal with these type of people... But surely since you are in class with the "year" now you already are dealing with them no?




Look, just be yourself and be happy. Always be polite and you'll be grand.


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But my real problem is that both girls know each other and i don't want them to meet.

They have a mutual agreement , but have a different social circle of friends

Both of the girls are really popular ,and if they find out I was scoring someone else behind their back. My social life will be ruined as their friends are in my inner circle and I will be marked a black sheep.

To tell the truth guys I'm afraid of what them girls could do. and i don't know how long i can keep running from them, as it looks like we could all end up in the same college. I think they are both doing BESS together too and its to late to change my CAO now.

I think the cowboys time is up:(

muboop1

D.R cowboy wrote: »

But my real problem is that both girls know each other and i don't want them to meet.

They have a mutual agreement , but have a different social circle of friends

Both of the girls are really popular ,and if they find out I was scoring someone else behind their back. My social life will be ruined as their friends are in my inner circle and I will be marked a black sheep.

To tell the truth guys I'm afraid of what them girls could do. and i don't know how long i can keep running from them, as it looks like we could all end up in the same college. I think they are both doing BESS together too and its to late to change my CAO now.

I think the cowboys time is up:(

Simple truth is you reap what you sow...

However, I don't understand the problem... They know each other but you don't want them to meet? I really don't get this...

If you no longer want to be sleeping with them just tell them each individually its over...

Or else is this what you mean?

You are screwing these two girls. They know each other. Both girls think they are the only one screwing you?

Do you have an exclusive agreement with either of these girls? I.e girlfriend, or dating or was it strictly fúck buddy arrangement?

You are scared they will talk about you and you will get found out?

They are mates of your mates so you do not want people to find out or they will think less of you.

Ok, so you are hoping to get into Trinity where these girls are, thus increasing chances they will both see you or you would come up in convo etc.

You state these girls are in your inner circle so what is the relevancy of the college they go to? They will see each other regardless...

I think there is alot more to this story then you are saying (assuming its the truth). There are some serious inconsistencies.

Like if they are both in your group how can they both not know... that you are scoring the other?

What is your arrangement with these girls??

vespahead

so you're problem now is that these girls are friends with your friends???
why dont you just man up and tell them both that you've done something you're not proud of and had them both on the go at the same time, apologies, and say that you would like to be mates with them but understand if they dont want to talk to you anymore,

thats on the chance that your storys true,sounds very close to the plot of john tucker must die tho:rolleyes:

Nevyn

The next person to question if this it true or not gets a break from the forum.

Nevyn

D.R cowboy wrote: »

But my real problem is that both girls know each other and i don't want them to meet.

They have a mutual agreement , but have a different social circle of friends

Both of the girls are really popular ,and if they find out I was scoring someone else behind their back. My social life will be ruined as their friends are in my inner circle and I will be marked a black sheep.

To tell the truth guys I'm afraid of what them girls could do. and i don't know how long i can keep running from them, as it looks like we could all end up in the same college. I think they are both doing BESS together too and its to late to change my CAO now.

I think the cowboys time is up:(

TCD is a big place you just need to learn to manage your affairs better.
I suggest you try and keep clear of them from now to term time starts and just blank them. Why keep up a pretence of being friendly, you scored them and thats it.

They have no more power over you then what you give them.

D.R cowboy

Thaedydal wrote: »

TCD is a big place you just need to learn to manage your affairs better.
I suggest you try and keep clear of them from now to term time starts and just blank them. Why keep up a pretence of being friendly, you scored them and thats it.

They have no more power over you then what you give them.

Thanks thaedydal for your sound advice on this matter.

At the end of the day I cannot like control if it ever comes up in a convo

I'm hoping this does not happen

girl 2 What do you think of the cowboy?
girl1 I think he is sooovhot i scored him last year
girl2 OMG when?
girl1 For most of last year , we were tight;)
Girl2 Your such a bitch I scored him last year too
girl1 OMg I did not know, he is so dead


FTW They do not know each other, they know of one other thats all guys

Nevyn

Not your fault if they didn't talk about then, so what they have you in common.
It will be a learning curve for them as well.

beauty101

D.R cowboy wrote: »

Hey guys

I thought this would be the best place to post this.

i'm 21 and i just did my leaving cert again for the third and final time this year, however I was doing it in a grind school in Dublin. I meet 2 girls how were 17 and I had a casual sexual relationship with each of them for awhile, but school has finished now , so how do i tell them to get lost and to stop talking to me in the street, as its quiet embarrassing when I'm with girls who are in college.

Just send them both the link to this post...problem solved

D.R cowboy

beauty101 wrote: »

Just send them both the link to this post...problem solved

By your location I hope your not one of them:eek:

Big Bag of Chips

D.R cowboy wrote: »

i just did my leaving cert again for the third and final time this year, however I was doing it in a grind school in Dublin. I meet 2 girls how were 17 and I had a casual sexual relationship with each of them for awhile, but school has finished now , so how do i tell them to get lost and to stop talking to me in the street

D.R cowboy wrote: »

But my real problem is that both girls know each other and i don't want them to meet.

In these posts you give the impressions/outrightly say that they know each other.. in a later post you say they don't know each other.

D.R cowboy wrote: »

They do not know each other, they know of one other thats all guys

Which is it?

If they don't know each other why would they be talking to each other, and if indeed they ever did talk to each other (without knowing each other!) why do you reckon you would come up in conversation?

You also say you are probably all going to be in the same college... results and offers aren't out yet.. so you're planning for something that may never happen!

Get over your ego.
When the girls start college, they are going to mature and move on.

I suggest you do the same.

beauty101

D.R cowboy wrote: »

By your location I hope your not one of them:eek:

Nah I don't sleep around with schoolboys

D.R cowboy

beauty101 wrote: »

Nah I don't sleep around with schoolboys

Playing hard to get;)