Am I being out of order....

Me1984

Ok..

So, I was going out with a girl for 4 years... We had split up half way through at which point I went with other people but she didn't...

We then got back together... and have recently parted company again (my doing)...

Basically, two days after we split she was out and got really drunk and some fella kissed her, she said it was only few seconds and she really regretted it etc etc..

I have been much more mature about this break-up and not went with anyone at all.. Just taking some time out..

To be honest, I was kind of thinking about trying to work things out, cause I do really like her.. But just can't seem to get over her kissing some other fella only few days after when we were split up for months and she never went with no-one previously...

In reading this I prob am a bit out of line?

Ickle Magoo

So last time you split it was fine for you to get with other people but this time she had a wee kiss and that's bang out of line? Yes, you are out of order. You set the protocol for what was or wasn't acceptable when you split up last time, you can't suddenly change the goal posts when she follows your lead.

Perhaps if you are both so unhappy that you keep breaking up and either one or the other is hooking up with someone else, this relationship isn't really going to work anyway. Four years and two break ups doesn't seem very healthy.

Me1984

Yea - That was kind of my thoughts on the whole thing too....

Ah well, looks like it's just not meant to be..

Gyalist

Once you broke up she became a free agent and could do whatever she wished. You don't break up with someone and then try to control the way they live.

Me1984

I wasn't trying to control her.... She can do what she wants and has done..

Miss Fluff

Me1984 wrote: »

I have been much more mature about this break-up

Oh really?

Double standards much? Please don't tell me the 1984 in your username reflects your age because in all honesty your post is like something a 17-year old would right. Leave the poor girl alone. You can't dump someone (twice) and then feign hurt when they try to get on with their lives.

Snoopy1

Oh Please!!
You're upset because she kissed someone, where it was fine for you to do more than kissing with others!!
You say your'e being more mature now, but it really doesnt sound like it.
Prehaps its time to finally call it a day on this "relationship"

SarahSassy

Why do you now want to get back with someone you keep breaking up with? What has changed for the better?