girlfriend in toilet

LegacyUser

i was just wondering is it normal for girls to actually go into cubicles together in toilets in nightclubs and pubs??? my girlfriend told me she does this with her friends the other day and it kind of bothered me. i know i probably have no right to be annoyed or bothered by this but i just found it a bit strange. i always knew girls for some reason went to the toilet in pacts but didnt know they went into the actual cubicle with each other and i found the idea of my girlfriend peeing in front of another person weird.

SarahSassy

Nah its normal

Nevyn

I'd never do it, I think it's werid but some people don't think it is.

metrovelvet

Yes some do do that. Don't ask me why.

whatsamsn

haha. Yeah.
Some girls do it.
its kinda weird alright. In my opinion, Its more so associated with younger people in clubs/bars... aka (girls who arent mature yet)

Jennifurball

I did it about 10 years ago if there was a big queue, but not now. I don't see it as a big deal, I am sure you would sooner her go in with her mates than another man.

spinandscribble

eh, no i wouldn't. tbh i didn't even know girls did that. I actually don't see why. if theres a Q if your friends beside you they're next in the Q anyway. I find it kinda weird. I don't think you should be mad at your gf though.

barleybooley

Oh, God yeah, totally normal, do it all the time! None of my friends have ever thought it was strange. I guess it's weird for guys because guys would probably never do it...

Miss Fluff

Totally normal, just something girls so when there is a big queue for a loo

spinandscribble

wow I've never noticed this before, i always assumed it was a case of some girls getting really drunk and helping eachother out. won't tar them with the same brush so

LegacyUser

loo_ wrote: »

i found the idea of my girlfriend peeing in front of another person weird.

i take it you don't use urinals in public places like pubs then?

Jennifurball

Men have to stand next to each other weeing in the urinals, strangers too!! :eek:

Kimia

I think it's weird that you're bothered by it. Are you worried that she's a closet lesbian and will be overcome with lust by seeing another girl pee?

Eve_Dublin

I thought ALL girls did this?? God I´m such a weirdo! That´s two posts today that I´ve said, "I do that!" when no one else does hee hee. I´ve done it in the past if there was a big queue in a club or concert just to save time and nothing else...I think I´ve no problem with this because I´m from a large family and we had one bathroom growing up so my sister would walk in on me doing my business and brush her teeth etc.

I guess people´s levels of disgust differ from person to person.

It might a little bit odd but I don´t see how it would bother you?

Also, are you sure that´s all she´s doing in there? No illegal activity?

krudler

loo_ wrote: »

i was just wondering is it normal for girls to actually go into cubicles together in toilets in nightclubs and pubs??? my girlfriend told me she does this with her friends the other day and it kind of bothered me. i know i probably have no right to be annoyed or bothered by this but i just found it a bit strange. i always knew girls for some reason went to the toilet in pacts but didnt know they went into the actual cubicle with each other and i found the idea of my girlfriend peeing in front of another person weird.

Thats wierd, but us standing in a row with a bunch of strange men, dicks in hand, peeing in a trough isnt?

a lot of girls do this, dont worry about it

Elle Collins

Kimia wrote: »

I think it's weird that you're bothered by it.

+ 1

Why are you bothered by it?

sexdwarf

loo_ wrote: »

i was just wondering is it normal for girls to actually go into cubicles together in toilets in nightclubs and pubs??? my girlfriend told me she does this with her friends the other day and it kind of bothered me. i know i probably have no right to be annoyed or bothered by this but i just found it a bit strange. i always knew girls for some reason went to the toilet in pacts but didnt know they went into the actual cubicle with each other and i found the idea of my girlfriend peeing in front of another person weird.

I don't mean to be harsh OP but your girlfriend is not cheating in the toilet or doing anything to jeopardise your relationship therefore her toilet habits with her friends really aren't your concern! Loaaaads of girls do this on nights out, to hold each other's handbags and that kind of thing, nothing weird about it and entirely her own business.

Oryx

Is it just cos we do it sitting down that it bothers you? As mentioned above, men pee together all the time, and in public places too!

I dont do this, but I can see the reasoning.

Any chat going on gets to continue.
Queues to the ladies are always bloody long, so this may seem like making it faster (ye get to the loo at the one time).
You get someone to make sure your skirt isnt tucked in your knickers before you go back out again.
It seems like a girlpal thing to do. (were bffs, we're so close we pee together)

*Some people do coke together off the cistern. But not saying this is the case with your gf.

You shouldnt be weirded out by other girls seeing your girls body, peeing or not. Theyve all got the same kit down there, its not a big deal.

LittleBook

Actually in my younger clubbing days, this kind of thing was as much about guarding the door (which invariably had a broken lock) as it was about being girlie. Now I go to places with loos that have locks that work

This is not at all unusual in my experience. You find it strange because it never occurred to you before, but I think it's fairly common with younger women.

imbroglio

Yeah, it's really common OP. I've even seen some clubs that have bigger stalls with benches and stuff, so that more than one person can comfortably be in there at once. I wouldn't worry.

Miaireland

It seems to be pretty common although not something I have ever done. I think in lots of case in bars and clubs the door may not lock so one hold it close while the other uses the loo and also to hold bag etc.

Oryx

This has just reminded me of a club in paris where some of the toilet cubicles had a bench type toilet with two toilet seats side by side. They must have been catering to a demand!

Contessa Raven

I do it sometimes with my friends. It's only when out partying though. Wouldn't do it in the house or a house party. IME it's only if you want to continue an important chat without letting the whole room know what it is you're discussing, or if the lock on the toilet door is broken, or if you need someone to hold your drink/bag/coat etc...

Totally normal thing for women to do.

Micahelxcx

Problem is what if one girl wants to go a number two? Do her friends all stand in the same cubicle and let her do her **** and then smell it? And then they have to watch her wipe her ass and flush. Yuch.

whatsamsn

I think some people need to give the op a break.

From the sounds of it he obviously didnt know that alot of girls do this. My gut says he is probably young

Give him a break
He was obviously weirded out by it, by thinking who wants to see or hear there friend in the bathroom :P

Faith

I'm not a fan of it, but I've done it a few times. It's normally when we're drunk and we want to continue a conversation (or at a house party and we want to have a time-saving bitch about people!).

Pembily

I am 26 and would consider myself mature and the odd time if I want to continue a conversation with a girlfriend and there are too many people outside I will go into the cubicle with her!!!! Its not like I stand there peeing with my dress up and all my bits on show, I sit down and my dress generally covers all...

Guys stand side by side all the time with strangers and it "the norm"!!! Don't get why you are weirded out by it OP!!

Zaph

Micahelxcx wrote: »

Problem is what if one girl wants to go a number two? Do her friends all stand in the same cubicle and let her do her **** and then smell it? And then they have to watch her wipe her ass and flush. Yuch.

Take a week off

Tender Hoop

They could be doing drugs together, I know my ex used to take coke with her mates in the cubicle so i busted in once and she was there alone taking a dump. We broke up.