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Can't get her out of my head!

  • 26-07-2010 4:35pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Well I met her about 2 months ago, I had seen her a couple of times before, when I was with a group of mutual friends, but to be honest i always though she was out of my league.

    Anyway 2 months ago I was with friends and she was too and I kind of got a feeling that she may like me, so I asked her out. I thought the date went well and we agreed to hang out later in the week. The same day I was out with a few friends drinking and I texted her saying I liked her.

    I didn`t hear from her for a week or so, I thought that she had just gone off me and I was starting to move on, when I got a text from her saying she liked me too. I was going away a couple of days later so I couldn't see her.

    When I got back, things in her job got really busy and and she started to say that she couldn`t get into anything because she didn`t want to hurt me. About a week ago we were out, shared a few drunken snogs, and since then communication has been sporadic. I haven`t heard from her in a couple of days.

    Sorry if that all seems disjointed, but my heads all over the place at the moment.
    Just wondering if should I try to move on or not ?


Comments

  • #2
    Elessar
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,267 ✭✭✭Elessar


    You made a classic mistake of telling her how you feel way too early. It takes away the mystery, the challenge. Sounds like she's not really interested either, with the excuses she's making.

    Everyone is unique though so it might not all be lost. I would advise you to call her and ask her on a date (or even better, ask her in person) and if you get anything other than a yes (some girls are too nice to say no directly), move on.

    Good luck!


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