Next move

LegacyUser

Looking for a few opinions, met a girl for a couple of dates and they went really well, there is a slight problem in so far as I am out of work and will probably have to emigrate. She on the other hand is in secure employment. Was supposed to meet her today but she texted yesterday to say her heart wasn't in it anymore. Am kind of guessing she is saying to herself no point in carrying on with the relationship if this guy is going to be emigrating. It's not often you meet someone that you like and I know the odds are stacked against me with being out of work and the only real option being emigration. What do I do with this girl? Do I walk away and forget about it or should I call her and tell her how I feel? What do you guys think?

metrovelvet

Why invest in something you're going to leave anyway?

LegacyUser

op here, thats a good point and pretty much what I was thinking. Damn the recession

Miss Fluff

If you're leaving I don't really see the point tbh. If you want, write her a nice letter or email bemoaning the fact you wish things were different and wish her well but you are only speculating as to her reasons for calling a halt to it. Her heart may genuinely not be in it. I'd leave it (and not fight for it) unless you are actually planning on staying here.

LegacyUser

op here again, I guess I have to agree with you miss fluffy. Actually in her text she said her heart wasn't in it for the moment. I don't think it matters, I guess her heart just isn't in it.

SarahSassy

She is being practical... I would just take her at her word.

Best of luck.

SS