I really liked her..

LegacyUser

I was on a business trip abroad about a week ago and met a woman from another country. I guess I feel head over heels for her. I talked a good bit to her but nothing personal really but we got on just great. Added her on facebook and absolutely nothing about her relationship status. She is largely professional in what she talks about.

Basically, is there any way I can bring up just "are you single or what"? How can I find out? If she was ANYWAY interested would she make that known?

Very difficult for me to be rational through all of this, probably just emotions going mad. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance.

katie99

Tell her you enjoyed chatting with her and you wouldn't mind meeting for a coffee or a drink with her.
You will know from the feedback whether she is interested in meeting you or not.

jurgenscarl

You meet her on a business trip a week ago now, you have her as a friend on facebook, your conversation never turned into a discussion about personal issues and she only acted professional with you.
Sorry to have to tell you this but from reading between the lines you missed your chance.
You didn't make any kind of move when you should have and she is probably completely unaware that you have feelings for her.
She sees you as just a business contact and nothing more.
If you get in contact with her now and start looking for some romance she is probably going to tell you she is flattered but she's not interested and you probably will never hear from her again.
That ship has sailed.
In future when you meet an attractive woman you shouldn't hesitate to turn on the romance right away.
Stop focusing on just one woman but rather get used to chatting up women all the time.

LegacyUser

jurgenscarl wrote: »

You meet her on a business trip a week ago now, you have her as a friend on facebook, your conversation never turned into a discussion about personal issues and she only acted professional with you.
Sorry to have to tell you this but from reading between the lines you missed your chance.
You didn't make any kind of move when you should have and she is probably completely unaware that you have feelings for her.
She sees you as just a business contact and nothing more.
If you get in contact with her now and start looking for some romance she is probably going to tell you she is flattered but she's not interested and you probably will never hear from her again.
That ship has sailed.
In future when you meet an attractive woman you shouldn't hesitate to turn on the romance right away.
Stop focusing on just one woman but rather get used to chatting up women all the time.

I should have said I guess... but I'm over and back with emails about helping her with something, and I did a good job infact. Theres also an invitation for me to go there and for her to come here with the group of friends she was with. Thing is, I still don't know if shes single lol. How do I initiate a personal convo with her? Should I? I'll have the balls to do it if thats the way to go.

jurgenscarl

originalpost wrote: »

I should have said I guess... but I'm over and back with emails about helping her with something, and I did a good job infact. Theres also an invitation for me to go there and for her to come here with the group of friends she was with. Thing is, I still don't know if shes single lol. How do I initiate a personal convo with her? Should I? I'll have the balls to do it if thats the way to go.

ok that info changes things a little.
Conversation with a woman is easy when you know how.
Since you have exchanging emails by now you should be aware of what movies, music, fashion, holiday destinations etc etc she likes.
Get her to talk about how those things makes her feel.
In fact keep all the conversation geared toward how she feels and ask gentle playful but penetrating questions that dig deeper and deeper into her emotions and feelings.
Stay away from topics like politics, racism, sexism etc etc.
Let her talk about herself and she'll think you are wonderful because you make her feel so good.
Don't launch into how you feel or your traumas or anything personal about yourself because women don't really care.
The more she finds you understand her the more attracted she will become and she will naturally cuddle up with you.

LegacyUser

jurgenscarl wrote: »

ok that info changes things a little.
Conversation with a woman is easy when you know how.
Since you have exchanging emails by now you should be aware of what movies, music, fashion, holiday destinations etc etc she likes.
Get her to talk about how those things makes her feel.
In fact keep all the conversation geared toward how she feels and ask gentle playful but penetrating questions that dig deeper and deeper into her emotions and feelings.
Stay away from topics like politics, racism, sexism etc etc.
Let her talk about herself and she'll think you are wonderful because you make her feel so good.
Don't launch into how you feel or your traumas or anything personal about yourself because women don't really care.
The more she finds you understand her the more attracted she will become and she will naturally cuddle up with you.

Thanks very much for the advice, I'll let you know how it goes!