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problem of the heart, advice needed

mrsnesbit! · 2010-07-18 22:55:56

Im at my wits end with this guy, I went out with him last autumn and had a stormy break-up, he broke up with me drunkenly I was angry but then he came crawling back apologising but I wouldnt have any of it. He proceeded to try and rekindle things for the next couple of monthes but I wouldnt have any of it. We have remained…

18-07-2010 10:55pm

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Im at my wits end with this guy, I went out with him last autumn and had a stormy break-up, he broke up with me drunkenly I was angry but then he came crawling back apologising but I wouldnt have any of it. He proceeded to try and rekindle things for the next couple of monthes but I wouldnt have any of it. We have remained friends because we have the same friends. He is now going out with a girl for 4 months who I kind of know, he came to my home town a couple of weeks ago and we went out with another guy we both knew (who had to go home over an emergancy) a girl that we knew pulled out at the last minute. So we ended up just the two of us that night even though his friends were in the pubs and clubs. We came on severly strong to me and was pretending we were going out, I told him to stop numerous times and he tried it on, we ended up kissing for a few seconds but then he realised what he was doing and stopped, we both agreed that we would say nothing to anyone.
I simply cant believe all the feelings that I buried came up again 8 monthes later.
Im discusted with myself for letting it happen annd discusted at him for cheating on his girlfriend
Now im left with the burden of keeping this quiet and I cant tell any of my friends because they all know him aswel.
Its as if he wants both of us but he cant choose and im sickened.
That night he was asking me about the current fella I have my eye on but at the same time bringing up incidences that happened when we were going out.

All my friends hate him.

Im so confused what the hell should I do..

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#2 18-07-2010 11:26pm

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Thread tied up and moved from AH, please note that the Relationship Issues forum rules are in effect from here on, if you are unsure of the rules please read them you will find them in the forum charter.

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#3 19-07-2010 12:54pm

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What do you mean he can't choose between you and her? You said he tried getting you's back together for months and you were having none of it. Now he has a girlfriend and because you have discovered you still have feelings, it's his fault that he can't choose. I'm sorry OP i'm confused.

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#4 19-07-2010 8:10pm

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sounds like he just wanted to know if he could still pull you, as a backup to his current situation.

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