fancy younger guy

LegacyUser

im a 27 year old woman and i cant stop thinking about an 18 year old guy! Im totally freaked out about it - he's a child! Maybe its because I havn't had sex in a few months. Am i normal to fancy a guy 9 years younger than me? I know nothing can happen as he is so young - my friend joked id get arrested - she was joking! Has anyone else fancied a person so much younger than them???

sleeplessin

Go for it. He's legal, your legal so whats the problem. If I was 18 again and a 27 year old actually went for me I would have been chuffed. Your young, get a bit of younger into you.

tenchi-fan

Disagree with sleeplessin
If you went with that guy youd be a cougar! Have some respect for yourself. If he's up for it, fair enough, but would you really feel better after it? or would you just be looking for a relationship that this guy doesn't want?

alpha2010

she isn't a cougar she ain't 40 relax, if you think he likes you too then go for it. your still in your prime and being with someone younger than you isn't a bad thing sexually but relationship wise maybe because he is probably still very immature and you both wont be on the same page if you get me but if its just some harmless fun then I say go for it.

HavingCrack

As long as you're not after a relationship go for it sure!

greengiant09

interesting one.....i'd say it's fine so long as you're not in it for a relationship....couldn't imagine you'd be on the same wavelength. i'd be curious to see what peoples reactions would be to it compared to a male being in your situation after a younger girl.

fungun

by the 'half your age and add 7' rule of thumb it puts him a mite too young, but if you are free and single and it feels good, then why not?

jurgenscarl

Who cares what other people think?
There is only what you do and what you don't do.
If you want him then go get him and if anyone else finds out and doesn't like it then feck them.
Maybe they should get their own action.

LegacyUser

Hi OP,

I went through a similar situation recently. I am a 28 year old guy and I was seeing a 17 year old girl. I met her in a nightclub at the start, she told me the first night we met that she was 21! She did look a lot more mature for her age. Anyway I really fancied her so I went for it! She told me her real age but to hell with what others I thought. Its your life and your happiness. Physically the sex was amazing between us. We gave a relationship a try but to be honest the gap mentally speaking became more and more apparent as time went on and I found her behaviour imature. Not to mention some serious hassle I got from her family because I was much older.

Like the other poster have said here, if its just a physical fling you are looking for then go for it I say, but from my own experience I would tread carefully if you are thinking of a relationship with this boy.

Good luck OP

elius

With my partner 7 yrs she's 6yrs older than me started going out when i was 19. Now engaged and have a baby on the way. If you get on well and the attraction is there go for it.

beks101

Ah I get these ridiculous crushes on teenage boys all the time OP (current one is an intern in the office who is smokin' hot and not a day older than sixteen, if even...)

To be honest, I just put it down to my high sex drive and if, like you, I'm not getting any...no-one's off-limits for an ogle!

I don't know if you're considering acting on it? Personally I would never dream of it with these crazy crushes, but then that's me. I'm 25 and to be honest, would lose self respect if I took advantage of a sixteen year old!

But in your case, it's legal...it depends on whether or not the opportunity arises, and whether or not you'd be emotionally equipped to handle it. If no, like me, just indulge in a bit of 'me time' and find some eye candy closer to your age to enjoy!

Don't worry though, it's totally normal