Boards member having an affair.

Carlos_Ray

A few months ago, a work collegue used my computer to check his email etc. Anyway he checked his boards account and left it logged in. I saw his user name and logged him out.

I recently became a member of boards and have noticed a number of posts by this individual. ( He doesn't know I know his username BTW.) Some of his posts reveal a number of embarrassing things , including admissions of infidelity!

It is clear from the content of his posts that he thinks he is posting anonymously. I feel a bit guilty secretly knowing his identity, but I feel its gone too far to tell him that I know....

Should I tell him? Can I ignore his posts ( if so should I)?? Its strange, I feel I am in the wrong, but this man is apparently ripping off his wife among other things! Before anyone asks, I'm not revealing his username....(unless I'm paid...)

GalwayKiefer

Blackmail him.

Scuid Mhór

hahahahaha oh wow.

carlos_ray has found himself caught in quite the scandal!

Celly Smunt

i'm pretty sure the ratio of lies here is 100:1,however i guess you could say the same about the bible,dont stop..Believing

IvyTheTerrible

PI answer: If he is having an affair, it's none of your business to tell his wife, no matter what way you found out about it.

AH answer: Make a bit of cash out of the situation.

You decide!

pebbles21

I bet your the office gossip too....nosey much?

smokin ace

open up another account with another user name and string him along for the laugh

My name is URL

If he's dumb enough to admit to having affairs online then he deserves it

magick

and i thought id get away with it too.........

leg

Feeky I was always proud of that lad

Snowie

who cares what goes on not our buisness

leg

After sending the op a p.m i have found out the members profile

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/member.php?u=49816

I personally would leave it go op after seeing who it is

Fremen

Anonymous PM: "I know who you are, keep your personal life to yourself". Situation sorted.

bijapos

Carlos_Ray wrote: »

A few months ago, a work collegue used my computer to check his email etc. Anyway he checked his boards account and left it logged in. I saw his user name and logged him out.

I recently became a member of boards and have noticed a number of posts by this individual. ( He doesn't know I know his username BTW.) Some of his posts reveal a number of embarrassing things , including admissions of infidelity!

It is clear from the content of his posts that he thinks he is posting anonymously. I feel a bit guilty secretly knowing his identity, but I feel its gone too far to tell him that I know....

Should I tell him? Can I ignore his posts ( if so should I)?? Its strange, I feel I am in the wrong, but this man is apparently ripping off his wife among other things! Before anyone asks, I'm not revealing his username....(unless I'm paid...)

OK, I'll give you €1 if you name him.

There, you're getting paid, now name the sleazeball.

smcgiff

You could put the guy on ignore. Simples

Daemos

And I would've gotten away with it too if it weren't for you meddling kids

TheZohanS

Carlos_Ray wrote: »

A few months ago, a work collegue used my computer to check his email etc. Anyway he checked his boards account and left it logged in. I saw his user name and logged him out.

I recently became a member of boards and have noticed a number of posts by this individual. ( He doesn't know I know his username BTW.) Some of his posts reveal a number of embarrassing things , including admissions of infidelity!

It is clear from the content of his posts that he thinks he is posting anonymously. I feel a bit guilty secretly knowing his identity, but I feel its gone too far to tell him that I know....

Should I tell him? Can I ignore his posts ( if so should I)?? Its strange, I feel I am in the wrong, but this man is apparently ripping off his wife among other things! Before anyone asks, I'm not revealing his username....(unless I'm paid...)

Is that the fella that left his wedding ring or something behind him in some chicks house around Rathfarnham?

Think he lived around the Bray/Greystones area and liked golf....

Scuid Mhór

Giant Squid wrote: »

hahahahaha oh wow.

carlos_ray has found himself caught in quite the scandal!

seriously though carlos_ray, i think you're just jealous that he's getting all the bitches and you're not.

GLaDOS

I wish I was having an affair...

Sanjuro

Assume his identity. Consequence-free!

Ricardo G

Think you should leave him at it tbh, as the ole saying goes " the truth comes out in the end " so he'll more than likely get caught out at some stage. If i was him i'd prefer to know someone was monitoring me, might make me stop and think about what i'm doing !!

If you revealed his username this would make an interesting thread..

leg

[quote=[Deleted User];66941979]If you revealed his username this would make an interesting thread..[/QUOTE]

I already did

Carlos_Ray

Giant Squid wrote: »

seriously though carlos_ray, i think you're just jealous that he's getting all the bitches and you're not.

And you reached that conclusion ... how? why do you have to qualify your statement with "seriously"?

alwaysadub

TheZohan wrote: »

Is that the fella that left his wedding ring or something behind him in some chicks house around Rathfarnham?

Think he lived around the Bray/Greystones area and liked golf....

That's the 1st person who came into my head too when i read it!
Dunno where that thread ended up..

brianthebard

pmcmahon wrote: »

i'm pretty sure the ratio of lies here is 100:1,however i guess you could say the same about the bible,dont stop..Believing

This thread potentially puts the earlier thread about spanish students in a new light....

Tar.Aldarion

convince his wife to have sex with you to get him back

Abrasax

If his posts are annoying you, you should put him on ignore.

Other than that it's none of your business what he gets up to.

It's an invasion of privacy, imo.

Pompey Magnus

I wonder how many of the user telling the OP to "mind your own business" are secretly panicking?

Offy

bijapos wrote: »

OK, I'll give you €1 if you name him.

There, you're getting paid, now name the sleazeball.

I'll raise that to €1.01

fizzynicenice

DaPoolRulz wrote: »

And I would've gotten away with it too if it weren't for meddling with you kids

FYP

January

Bet every man on boards who is having an affair is now sh*tting themselves and furiously going through posts to delete any info.

stupidusername

I'll raise it to €5!

Seriously though, the mood I'm in, I'd rat him out. Anyone having an affair (OR ATTEMPTING TO) should be ratted out. But then if you actually like the guy, maybe not.

Carlos_Ray

stupidusername wrote: »

I'll raise it to €5!

Seriously though, the mood I'm in, I'd rat him out. Anyone having an affair (OR ATTEMPTING TO) should be ratted out. But then if you actually like the guy, maybe not.

I don't really like him. Just work with him. I have met his wife though and she's a really nice woman so I'd feel sorry for her if it turns out to be true. As a previous poster said, perhaps the guys posts are just fiction ( part of his online persona with no basis in reality.)

Scuid Mhór

Carlos_Ray wrote: »

And you reached that conclusion ... how? why do you have to qualify your statement with "seriously"?

why do you have to be oblivious to an obvious play at humour?

ABEasy

TheZohan wrote: »

Is that the fella that left his wedding ring or something behind him in some chicks house around Rathfarnham?

Think he lived around the Bray/Greystones area and liked golf....

Linky please.........the sky is broken and i'm bored

sligopark

carlos_ray you snook into someone else's personal business - am I the only one thinking something nasty risking an infraction or ban?

However blackmail and shaggin the wife - now we're talkin' LOL

Dilynnio

Hey OP

Has the guy in question posted in this thread yet?:D

Tell us when he does and we can play guess the cheater!

stupidusername

Carlos_Ray wrote: »

I don't really like him. Just work with him. I have met his wife though and she's a really nice woman so I'd feel sorry for her if it turns out to be true. As a previous poster said, perhaps the guys posts are just fiction ( part of his online persona with no basis in reality.)

Well as I said the mood I'm in I'd tell the wife. Could get a battering on here for saying that but feck it.

It's possible it's fictitious, but judging by what he's said, does it sound like bragging, or is he just sharing his experiences?

4zn76tysfajdxp

If I was a mod I'd do an ip check.

Hank_Jones

While we're on the topic.

Anyone who cheats on their other half is a complete slimeball.

Can't understand why anyone would cheat.
If you don't want to be in the relationship then step up and say so, but don't cheat.

Pyr0

Ricardo G wrote: »

Think you should leave him at it tbh, as the ole saying goes " the truth comes out in the end "

Yeah but that end could be right now and we can all have a laugh about it !

xoxyx

Well, if, as we're always told, the IT Department can see everything we do on our work computers, I'd say that, if anybody logs on in work, their anonymity is compromised. So either only log on from home or else don't admit to your crimes on Boards!!!

Pete M.

Would you not just PM the guy?

stupidusername

Hank_Jones wrote: »

While we're on the topic.

Anyone who cheats on their other half is a complete slimeball.

Can't understand why anyone would cheat.
If you don't want to be in the relationship then step up and say so, but don't cheat.

Agree with you there. Don't understand why people don't have the decency to break up with the person they're with instead of cheating on their partner. Especially people who are married, and with a child/children. You'd have to be pretty pathetic really.

themadchef

Probably his online fantasy.

In reality, he goes home every Friday hands over the pay check and takes out the bins. Gets his hole once a month if he comes home on time from the pub and doesnt embarrass her too much at mass by falling asleep or picking his nose.

Female user name, PM him asking for no strings attached sex... he will sh1t himself