head over heart?

purplepixie

i know this guy will hurt me but keep going back for more whats wrong with me how do i get my head to work over my heart?
thanks guys

LouiseLaw

Give yourself some breathing and thinking space.. Guys that walk all over you are really not worth it. It may seem really tough right now to just walk away but if you know in your heart its not right for you then just get out. you will feel sore for a while but honestly you will get over it

seenitall

purplepixie wrote: »

i know this guy will hurt me but keep going back for more whats wrong with me how do i get my head to work over my heart?
thanks guys

Sounds like you are well on your way in the right direction. Your head has copped on to itself and is preparing a welcome coup over the heart. So for next time, there will be a bit more probability that the heart will co-operate with the head from the get go, and all hostilities will be a thing of the past.

Keep it up, and the best of luck for the future.

angelicgal

LouiseLaw wrote: »

Give yourself some breathing and thinking space.. Guys that walk all over you are really not worth it. It may seem really tough right now to just walk away but if you know in your heart its not right for you then just get out. you will feel sore for a while but honestly you will get over it

very good advise. I am in the same boat; he hurted me from day one from very small issues to issues that can break me but i still being stupid hanging onto me. I just want to hit myself so hard for doing this. I had jerks in my life before this guy and i somehow as i believe i am clinging to my guy like you do because i somehow have this feeling in my mind that i cant handle the true colors of these guys which happens in long run and thats when i fall in a situation as you are but i fought with myself to get rid of the previous guys as they are unsafe for anyone for that matter.

LegacyUser

Hey OP,

Maybe you should give some background so others can help a bit more? Sometimes the perpective is needed.