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How do you know if you are bothering a girl..?

  • 10-07-2010 5:31pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    If you are interested in a girl but she doesnt seem interested in you but wants to be friends with you how do you know if botherting her or not? how do you know if she wants to be just friends or is playing hard to get?


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  • #2
    AngryBadger
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭AngryBadger


    Tough one to call OP, can you give any specific examples of how what you do which you think might be bothering her?


  • #3
    LighterGuy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,243 ✭✭✭LighterGuy


    Yeah you probably need to example a bit more :P

    Ps, (on the subject)
    I think the whole "playing hard to get" is bo**ocks. You either like someone or you dont... why play games :P


  • #4
    jessiejam
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 778 ✭✭✭jessiejam


    hotoknow wrote: »
    If you are interested in a girl but she doesnt seem interested in you but wants to be friends with you how do you know if botherting her or not? how do you know if she wants to be just friends or is playing hard to get?

    Ok

    I assume this girl has actually told you that shes not interested in you "that way"?, I am also assuming that she has told you she would like to remain friends?
    If this is the case then she isn't playing hard to get, she has told you shes not interested and you should take it as that.

    When you say how do you know if you are bothering her or not, do you mean that you keep asking her out or treating her like you are into her?

    If that is the case, just treat her as you would a same sex friend, one of lads say and see how it pans out

    For you own sanity, move on and let her do the same.

    Plenty of fish and all that


  • #5
    RacoonQueen
    Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 20,366 Mod ✭✭✭✭RacoonQueen


    +1 on JessieJam

    I'm in a similar situation, only I'm the girl in it. I've a friend who I've known for about 4 or 5 years he has been pretty persistent in his feelings for me despite me being VERY persistent in rejecting him. Even when he's known I've been in other relationships he has still insisted on texting me things like "how are you beautiful x" which I always seem to receive while I'm sitting there with the OH. If she's said no, take it as a no. If you want her in your life as a friend then leave her be. Seriously, the guy I'm talking about has been through a rough time the last couple of years and always comes to me - I've tried desperately to continue being there for him but as soon as he's feeling good again he turns back onto the trying it on with me - despite my relationship status. :rolleyes:

    If you can't be just friends because you feel strongly about her, maybe the best option would be to just distance yourself from her, because if you keep pushing her, you're going to lose her anyway.


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