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How To Get a Bi Girl In Ten Days

  • 10-07-2010 1:45am
    #1
    MissBisexual
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭


    Girl wants help to come out to her friends by getting a girlfriend in ten days.

    Info About Self:
    Blonde.
    Five Foot Six.
    Athletic.
    18.
    Music and Reading.
    Funny.
    Ambitious.
    Intelligent.




    Any tips??? ;)


    . . .
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Comments

  • #2
    Tar.Aldarion
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,110 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    Sold!


  • #3
    rainbow kirby
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    You don't need to get a girlfriend to come out to your friends!


  • #4
    MissBisexual
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭MissBisexual


    rainbow kirby wrote: »
    You don't need to get a girlfriend to come out to your friends!

    Just looking for some advice cause I'm only a teenager


  • #5
    Annasopra
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,158 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    MissBisexual wrote: »
    Just looking for some advice cause I'm only a teenager
    ok - my advice is you don't need a girlfriend to come out

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • #6
    crotalus667
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,900 ✭✭✭crotalus667


    rainbow kirby wrote: »
    You don't need to get a girlfriend to come out to your friends!
    Yeah but you cant blame her for trying :D


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  • #7
    L.Jenkins
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 19,242 Mod ✭✭✭✭L.Jenkins


    Straight out tell people. I told people I was Bi, I know it's easy for some though.


  • #8
    Aard
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,905 ✭✭✭Aard


    Talk about doing it the difficult way!


  • #9
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I'm kinda the same. I'm bi but don't know how to tell my family or friends. Especially seeing as the most I've ever done is kissed a few girls. It's really annoying me but I don't want to tell the family until I have a semi-serious girlfriend. Otherwise, they won't take me seriously. Plus, I'd imagine it's easier to tell them I'm bi if I have a girlfriend.

    Where the hell does everyone meet girls these days? It seems like every second guy I bump into is gay but every single girl in Dublin is straight :(


  • #10
    mrDerek
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,311 ✭✭✭mrDerek


    girlwhoisbi wrote: »

    Where the hell does everyone meet girls these days? It seems like every second guy I bump into is gay but every single girl in Dublin is straight :(

    stop hangin out in the george ;)


  • #11
    Frei
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 125 ✭✭Frei


    The same odd places you meet anyone :)


    But if you want to be a bit more specific:

    http://www.theladylist.ie/

    http://www.meetup.com/Dublin-LGBTQ-Womens-Social-Networking-Club/


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  • #12
    MissBisexual
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭MissBisexual


    girlwhoisbi wrote: »
    I'm kinda the same. I'm bi but don't know how to tell my family or friends. Especially seeing as the most I've ever done is kissed a few girls. It's really annoying me but I don't want to tell the family until I have a semi-serious girlfriend. Otherwise, they won't take me seriously. Plus, I'd imagine it's easier to tell them I'm bi if I have a girlfriend.

    Where the hell does everyone meet girls these days? It seems like every second guy I bump into is gay but every single girl in Dublin is straight :(

    I completely understand you. It would just be a lot easier to tell people I'm bi if I had a girlfriend. I have told my close friends but other friends would think I was joking about it if I didnt have a girlfriend. I'm also finding it hard to tell people cause the most I've done is kiss girls aswell. I also think its really hard to find bi girls too. Any girls I meet are either straight or cant admit their bi or gay!:( Its nice to see that someone actually understands me. :)


  • #13
    SarahBeep!
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,965 ✭✭✭SarahBeep!


    MissBisexual wrote: »
    Any girls I meet are either straight or cant admit their bi or gay!:(

    +1!!!

    I've the same problem!! Told my friend the other week and she's the first person to know I'm bi and do ya know what she said?

    "You can't just decide you're Bi overnight Sarah, just coz you've kissed a few girls!!"

    I think I shuld know like!! :( :mad:

    Sure I'd help ya out, ya sound lovely :D hahaha


  • #14
    rere
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 107 ✭✭rere


    Frei wrote: »
    The same odd places you meet anyone :)


    But if you want to be a bit more specific:


    http://www.meetup.com/Dublin-LGBTQ-Womens-Social-Networking-Club/

    +1 on this. I can't think of an easier and more fun way of meeting more LGBT women.


  • #15
    smoggy11
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 183 ✭✭smoggy11


    I would recommend a dating website.

    In particular plentyoffish.com. In fairness, a lot of the girls are in relationships and looking for threesomes, but there are some really nice, genuine girls on there.

    I find it hard to meet girls in everyday situations, I'm always afraid of offending straight girls, I know some of my friends would be offended if a girl came on to them. But dating websites pretty much cut out the middle man.

    You should give it a go! Be sure to put up a picture though, most people won't reply if you don't have a picture.

    Good luck!


  • #16
    Dwn Wth Vwls
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 401 ✭✭Dwn Wth Vwls


    According to Plenty of Fish, bisexuals don't exist.


  • #17
    smoggy11
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 183 ✭✭smoggy11


    Dwn Wth Vwls wrote: »
    According to Plenty of Fish, bisexuals don't exist.

    True, but you don't have to say your orientation, You just say what your seeking. The OP could say she's bi in her profile, and say she's seeking a female. Thats what I did, its working out pretty well and it seems to be what most people do.

    It is a pain that they don't have a bi option. Its also annoying that when you go to send a message, all the tips at the bottom are about what men like to talk about and where men like to go on first dates. Even though i said I was seeking a woman :o


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