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To Text or Not to Text...?

  • 06-07-2010 9:47pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi there,

    OK - so I need some advice...

    I recently got involved with a guy who is 6 years older than me (no big deal, seeing as I'm 24). I have NEVER been so attracted to a guy I've been with (i'm also a boy, btw), and my nerves seem to be getting the best of me. We met around three weeks ago and have been on several dates, sometimes seeing each other twice a day. I thought things were going somewhere, but I was hesitant to have the chat with him because it was still very early in terms of the relationship.

    Last week he had to attend a conference in Switzerland and left for three days. I obviously wasn't in contact with him (let him have his space on his trip, and it's awkward with long-distance calling/ texting). He has been home since Sunday and I have heard from him yet... I got the impression before he left that he was a bit busy in work but also kinda felt he was making excuses. I just don't understand why he can't blantantly say I'm not interested instead of allowing me to continue trying to get with him...

    So, it IS possible he has been busy recently and just has had the time to get in touch (tbh I've been very busy myself!), I had being pushy, but I just feel like I should text him tomorrow and see if he's around and if he enjoyed Switzerland? Bad move?

    I'm usually bang-on about these situations, but hormones and attraction are getting in the way! Aaarrrrggggh!


Comments

  • #2
    Colonel_McCoy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 751 ✭✭✭Colonel_McCoy


    Ring him!


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    No don't ring him or text him. If he is interested he will text you, the ball is in his court.


  • #4
    Choc Affair
    Closed Accounts Posts: 54 ✭✭Choc Affair


    i would leave it up to him to contact. in fairness he was away and tiredness and busy work has prob caught up with him.....

    put on those dancing shoes and get your mind off him:D


  • #5
    carmel27
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 170 ✭✭carmel27


    Ya, id be inclined to at least maybe a wait a little longer. Maybe, if youve heard nothing in a few more days, you could drop him a casual text, asking he is or something. Make sure, though, you dont decide that the best ever time to do this would be on Fri or Sat night after 25 drinks!!!!:D

    Its ok saying to hold off and wait for him, but what if hes thinking the very same, which is possible?!

    Good luck OP!:)


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