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Should I try pua material

  • 05-07-2010 11:19PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi everyone.

    Im 21 in college and the most success I have never had a gf. Im tired of everyone telling me to enjoy being single or to just wait and someone will come along. I know they mean well but I find it insulting. Some people enjoy being single, I am not one of them. I would like to experience something else.

    I want to be the kind of person who girls are atteacted to. But if I remain the way I am, I never will be. I might "get lucky" some time down the line but I will never be really good with the opposite sex.

    Being single is also making me a worse person. It's turning me into an angry bitter person who is resentful of women. I dont want to imagine what another decade or even half decade of being single would do to me.

    I am wondering what everyones thoughts on "pua" are and if anyone has any experience of it.


Comments

  • #2
    Xiney
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,085 ✭✭✭Xiney


    My thoughts are that not closing this thread is going to bring the shills out of the woodwork.


  • #3
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,044 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    If you think you have anger management issues go talk to your dr about getting some counselling. If you think you need something to help with your confidence and to get practice talking to people then looking at your local toastmasters and get invovled or doing some volunteer work where you will have to interact with a heap of people.

    There are good books out there based on body language which pua stuff has used but isn't tainted by it's philosophies, they are easy to get in book shops and in even libraries, you just have to do the research rather then expecting an easy program of tricks which only instil the ideas that women are stupid and can be tricked and trapped.

    If you want a good, happy long term relationship with someone who when you see them makes you smile inside and out then don't bother with PUA.

    Work on yourself and your confidence learn about body language and work on being happy, a partner should add to your happiness not be it.


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