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Greetings987

Hey Folks

I wish to post a few thoughts of mine and comments are very welcome. I am not looking for anyone to direct my life or provide any mind blowing advice. Rather your initial reaction to what I say would be very much appreciated....

...I am a 35 yr old married straight guy, never had any interest in anyone except women (aoart fro the usual teenage stuff). Recently (2 years ago) I staarted to watch transexual porn. I used to watch porn the odd time on the net and I had a look at transexual porn just for curiosity sake. I liked what I saw. Since then I hace regularly (about twice a week) watched trans porn and I really like it. I find trans women really sexy. In the last few months I havent watched straight porn at all. I stll look at women on the street and all that. I have seen two transexuals in dublin (just walking through town) and my heart nearly exploded with excitment. I find them rather more attractive and interesting than women. Ive reflected on this and havent come up with any conclusive answer. At first I thought it was the often extreme femininity of transexuals that hooked me, but I think its actualy the genetilia in pre op trans that I seem to adore. This is strange because I have no attraction to men at all.

Kevin

Links234

Greetings987 wrote: »

This is strange because I have no attraction to men at all.

It's really not strange at all. A huge amount of straight men find trans girls attractive and are excited because of how exotic and taboo trans girls are, it's probably one of the most commons fetishes out there among guys. So don't worry, you're pretty normal.

Dwn Wth Vwls

My initial reaction is...

Greetings987 wrote: »

never had any interest in anyone except women (apart from the usual teenage stuff).

...what teenage stuff? I wasn't aware straight guys actually went through some sort of phase?

It doesn't really matter though, because as Links234 said, it's a reasonably common fetish. They're making that porn because there's an audience for it.

When you say you saw the transsexuals in town, did you actually want to do something about it?

Rev Hellfire

Its only an issue if you make it one.

TylerIE

Greetings987 wrote: »

Hey Folks

I wish to post a few thoughts of mine and comments are very welcome. I am not looking for anyone to direct my life or provide any mind blowing advice. Rather your initial reaction to what I say would be very much appreciated....

...I am a 35 yr old married straight guy, never had any interest in anyone except women (aoart fro the usual teenage stuff). Recently (2 years ago) I staarted to watch transexual porn. I used to watch porn the odd time on the net and I had a look at transexual porn just for curiosity sake. I liked what I saw. Since then I hace regularly (about twice a week) watched trans porn and I really like it. I find trans women really sexy. In the last few months I havent watched straight porn at all. I stll look at women on the street and all that. I have seen two transexuals in dublin (just walking through town) and my heart nearly exploded with excitment. I find them rather more attractive and interesting than women. Ive reflected on this and havent come up with any conclusive answer. At first I thought it was the often extreme femininity of transexuals that hooked me, but I think its actualy the genetilia in pre op trans that I seem to adore. This is strange because I have no attraction to men at all.

Kevin

TBH I think I'd treat it like an attraction to any other woman that you seen on the street...

Im a gay male and regularly find trans ladies stunning, attractive, interesting - the lovely DJ at the Dragon on Thurs and Victoria on Friday are gorgeous - but I still dont want to get sexually involved in them.

Iv shown straight friends pictures of "ladies" and they thought they were stunning and while they lost sexual interest once they found the true gender, they still said that they were very attractive....

While im not one to hide sexual urges - particularly if its a gay guy playing straight or playing "bi but mainly straight" - but its just an attraction I'm sure?

crotalus667

Do you want to have sex with one ??? or is it just a case of you just like tossing off to them ??

Bodhisopha

I thought everyone did this every once in a while.

Greetings987

Thanks for your comments.

Yea at this stage I defo want to have sex with them. When I saw the two trans gals on the street I wanted to go say hi, but bottled it. When I see trans the knowledge that its a man is a huge turn on.

Dwn Wth Vwls

I think wanting to cheat on your wife is the real problem, not finding pre-op transwomen attractive.

Links234

Greetings987 wrote: »

When I see trans the knowledge that its a man is a huge turn on.

Lets get something straight here. A transsexual woman is NOT a man. And no trans woman with any amount of self respect would ever want to sleep with someone who thinks of them as male.

It's fine having a fetish or having a fantasy and watching some porn, but leave it at that. Trans women in real life aren't anything like the girls you see in the porn film, and absolutely do not want to be bothered by someone who sees them as a fetish, or wants to fetishize a part of their bodies they are not comfortable with, and most definitely do no want to be bothered by someone who sees them as a man.

And shame on you for wanting to cheat on your wife.

Greetings987

Two things:

1) A guy with a dress and implants is still a guy!!!!

2) I dont accept moral judgements from anyone, let alone people on this forum.

Goodshape

Greetings987 wrote: »

Two things:

1) A guy with a dress and implants is still a guy!!!!

Some reading: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_identity

2) I dont accept moral judgements from anyone, let alone people on this forum.

"On this forum"? Right. Because we're all intrinsically amoral, I suppose.

Good luck with your infidelity. You sound like a top class bloke.

rainbow kirby

This thread has clearly run its course. Locked.