Wedding Rings - will they get you laid..?

massdebater

One of my mates got giggidy off a married woman last weekend and I was talking about it in work with a few girls (some married, some not). And so the conversation got to married people cheating on their partners.

A few of the girls mentioned the idea that a married man is more attractive and desirable to women and that they will take more notice to a guy who is wearing a wedding ring!!

They were saying that if a guy is looking for a bit of no-strings sex on a night out, a ring on your wedding finger is the best thing to attract the ladies! :eek:

Have to say this is the first time I've heard this theory, but to a single 23 year old man, this information could be gold dust!

Any girls agree with this, or any guys ever wear a "fake" wedding ring on a night out just to get sex?

mathie

In summation get the ring on your finger.

/thread.

easyeason3

The girls that will go after a man with a wedding ring on are dirtbirds who have probably ridden the biggest scum around.

The idiots that ride them are welcome to the does of syphillis that will no doubt present itself.

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*sniggers*

kylith

From an anthropological point of view it's probably that the man has already been accepted as a breeding partner by one woman that would lead others to accept him as a mate.

From a societal point of view those men are scumbags and those girls the lowest form of slapper.

GLaDOS

Sound like skanks, which shouldn't be too difficult in the first place

consultech

kylith wrote: »

From an anthropological point of view it's probably that the man has already been accepted as a breeding partner by one woman that would lead others to accept him as a mate.

From a societal point of view those men are scumbags and those girls the lowest form of slapper.

Both most likely true.

The whole "Natural pre-selection" (Originally defined in relation to evolution, but regularly referred to out of context for laws of attraction) thing is the bedrock for the entire "PUA" (Pick-up artist) movement.

Le King

OP - You don't happen to work in a brothel do you?

GavRedKing

Wedding Rings - will they get you laid..?

Yes, by your husband/wife, its almost certain.

Kiera

They seem to attract men too. My married girl mates get chatted up a lot when out even tho they are wearing their wedding ring. Guess the guys think its a once off lay and chance their arms.

Dennis the Stone

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=st_j2J4diE4

Ticktactoe

I heard something similar on the radio a few months back except it was the ladies with the ring on the finger.
Apparently it was becoming a trend to wear a fake engagement ring as this was more appealing to fellas...

/if ya like it then you shoulda put a ring on it...

Mint Sauce

so that explains why i'm getting so little

Angron

Honestly, the idea of women going after guys with a wedding ring on their finger digusts me. Same with men going after married women, once off or not.

Kiera

Ticktactoe wrote: »

I heard something similar on the radio a few months back except it was the ladies with the ring on the finger.
Apparently it was becoming a trend to wear a fake engagement ring as this was more appealing to fellas...

/if ya like it then you shoulda put a ring on it...

I actually saw a cheap set in Oasis last weekend. WTF?

consultech

P.s. OP a 23 year old lad going around with a wedding ring on his finger will most likely have people wondering where you've parked your caravan for the night, not if you'll cheat on your wife.

scotchannie

it goes with the saying that when you are single no-one will come near ya, but as soon as you are in a relationship you are beating them off with sticks.....:P it's the thrill of the chase i guess....

alwaysadub

Right,who's gonna marry me so i can get loads of offers from different men?

I never heard of that before but anyone who goes out lookin to pick up a married person is just pathetic

aDeener

massdebater wrote: »

One of my mates got giggidy off a married woman last weekend and I was talking about it in work with a few girls (some married, some not). And so the conversation got to married people cheating on their partners.

A few of the girls mentioned the idea that a married man is more attractive and desirable to women and that they will take more notice to a guy who is wearing a wedding ring!!

They were saying that if a guy is looking for a bit of no-strings sex on a night out, a ring on your wedding finger is the best thing to attract the ladies! :eek:

Have to say this is the first time I've heard this theory, but to a single 23 year old man, this information could be gold dust!

Any girls agree with this, or any guys ever wear a "fake" wedding ring on a night out just to get sex?

your mate's a prick

prinz

No/Yes/Maybe

Have been wearing one legitimately for 6 months now. It has had an effect. I don't think it automatically means you have a better chance of getting laid but it's definitely an ice breaker IMO. You aren't seen as so much of a 'threat' and as someone safe to chat to/have a bit of craic with. Probably getting 'in there' so to speak would make it easier to sleep with that person later. Never done that myself. Pretty skanky tbh. On both parties.

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alwaysadub wrote: »

Right,who's gonna marry me so i can get loads of offers from different men?

Just marry an equally horny friend

prinz

consultech wrote: »

P.s. OP a 23 year old lad going around with a wedding ring on his finger will most likely have people wondering where you've parked your caravan for the night, not if you'll cheat on your wife.

My brother had one at 21 and I have one and I'm 25. Are you calling us caravaners?

Kiera

alwaysadub wrote: »

Right,who's gonna marry me so i can get loads of offers from different men?

I never heard of that before but anyone who goes out lookin to pick up a married person is just pathetic

I will *puts hand up*

consultech

prinz wrote: »

My brother had one at 21 and I have one and I'm 25. Are you calling us caravaners?

No no, travellers.

massdebater

Yeah it does kinda make a girl more atractive too, that whole "wanting what you can't have" thing.

The girls were saying that it makes a guy more attractive because the fact that he's married shows that he is obviously "marriage material" for some girl and so it makes him attractive to other girls!

alwaysadub

Kiera wrote: »

I will *puts hand up*

Deadly!! Get the best of both now

easyeason3

prinz wrote: »

My brother had one at 21 and I have one and I'm 25. Are you calling us caravaners?

You're taking the piss?

prinz

consultech wrote: »

No no, travellers.

Why?

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Kiera wrote: »

I will *puts hand up*

Are you's not both wimmins?


Edit: Sorry, ignore that - as you were only with more pics this time please

prinz

easyeason3 wrote: »

You're taking the piss?

No.

Kiera

Fitzcaraldo wrote: »

Are you's not both wimmins?


Edit: Sorry, ignore that - as you were only with more pics this time please

We'll send you some of the honeymoon!

AAAAAAAHHH

prinz wrote: »

No.

Location: Dublin.

Ah, that makes sense.

prinz

AAAAAAAHHH wrote: »

Location: Dublin.
Ah, that makes sense.

Yeah, moved here 3 years ago. Doesn't make sense anymore chief

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Kiera wrote: »

We'll send you some of the honeymoon!

Nice one - score!





*goes back to blue balls thread*

AAAAAAAHHH

prinz wrote: »

Yeah, moved here 3 years ago. Doesn't make sense anymore chief

So you travelled to Dublin? Ah, that makes sense.

prinz

AAAAAAAHHH wrote: »

So you travelled to Dublin? Ah, that makes sense.

You got me there.

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AAAAAAAHHH wrote: »

So you travelled to Dublin? Ah, that makes sense.

What are you implying?



*gets popcorns*

storm2811

What's the big deal with someone getting married at 25??

Anyone,women who go out looking for married men specifically are tramps,they may see them as marraige material,but he is MARRIED.
Wtf?

NothingMan

prinz wrote: »

Yeah, moved here 3 years ago. Doesn't make sense anymore chief

prinz wrote: »

You got me there.

And you called a relative stranger chief! It's proof you're a member of the travelling community .


@Alwaysadub & Kiera reminds me of this t-shirt.

easyeason3

prinz wrote: »

No.

25 seems really young to be married.
Especially for a guy...no offence but any 25 year old men I know are drunken fools most of the time.

thebigbiffo

i have noticed, and have discussed this with my wife, friends, colleagues before that after i'd a ring on my finger, women in general were just a little bit more friendly and flirty with me. i found them more open, more willing to chat and less nervous...especially if the girl was a total stranger and even more so if a friend of a friend/colleague.

does this translate to easier to ride...

i doubt i'll ever find out

stovelid

It certainly seems like more women engage in unsolicited chat with you when you're hitched but I suspect this is because they think they can have a chat without you assuming you're in. Also the man can feel more at ease and confident (and thus I assume more attractive) because he's outside that chat-up zone and thus not under pressure to perform, as it were.

Same deal with having a young child with you: I think some women find the idea of it very attractive and will try and chat/flirt a little but it hardly means they want to jump on you, contrary to what a lot of men think.

NothingMan

easyeason3 wrote: »

25 seems really young to be married.
Especially for a guy...no offence but any 25 year old men I know are drunken fools most of the time.

Hey, i'm a 25 year old man and I take exception to that remark! I may be drunk and I may act like a fool but I am not a communist!

massdebater

Only one way to solve this. I'm buying a ring and wearing it for the next few weekends (obviously not round my usual places!) and seeing if I'm any more successful than normal!

worth a try I think!

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massdebater wrote: »

Only one way to solve this. I'm buying a ring and wearing it for the next few weekends (obviously not round my usual places!) !

Where are you going to wear it? A cock ring has a different effect - just so you know;)

phill106

Fitzcaraldo wrote: »

Where are you going to wear it? A cock ring has a different effect - just so you know;)

Chickens wear rings? Good lord, what a sheltered life i lead!

massdebater

Fitzcaraldo wrote: »

Where are you going to wear it? A cock ring has a different effect - just so you know;)

crap, I didnt read over that before I sent it!

I'll not head out to my local pubs and niteclubs I meant! Obviously people there will know I aint married!

prinz

easyeason3 wrote: »

25 seems really young to be married.
Especially for a guy...no offence but any 25 year old men I know are drunken fools most of the time.

It used to be most of the time, but I have it down to only some of the time now.

Mike 1972

gavredking wrote: »

Wedding Rings - will they get you laid..?

Yes, by your husband/wife, its almost certain.

I thought people only got married when they became bored with sex ?

testicle

gavredking wrote: »

Wedding Rings - will they get you laid..?

Yes, by your husband/wife, its almost certain.

You've never been married then!