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Anyone with experience of partner dying by sucide?

  • 28-06-2010 11:34pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Okay so I met this guy recently. All great, until it emerged that his one and only fianceé died by suicide. I was all on for a casual relationship when we met, but he was the one who was really taking it forward-compliments, texts every hour etc.

    Suddenly, have not heard from him for a few days. He revealed to me what had happened and therefore was not interested into getting into a serious relationship. I don't know what to think-I really like him. Is there some way I can get through to him that maybe we have a future or should I accept that he is doing a runner?


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Accept his word. It doesn't matter how well you think you'd get on, if the other person isn't feeling it for whatever reason you're at nothing trying to convince them otherwise. It sounds like he's still trying to get his head around things, give him the space to do so. Who knows, he might get back to you in a year and pick things up again. In the meantime carry on meeting new people and maybe you'll meet someone who's on the same page as you are.
    Good luck


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