Guys that are not into kissing

LGiamani

I met a guy the other night in a club and was really into him. He was goodlooking chatty nice smile. I decieded to get jiggy with him but when I went to kiss him his pushed me away and wanted me instead to give him head. I walked away as IMO if he was the real deal kissing would'nt be a problem. I like shifting a guy it can tell you a little about the person

azezil

LGiamani wrote: »

I met a guy the other night in a club and was really into him. He was goodlooking chatty nice smile. I decieded to get jiggy with him but when I went to kiss him his pushed me away and wanted me instead to give him head. I walked away as IMO if he was the real deal kissing would'nt be a problem. I like shifting a guy it can tell you a little about the person

How retro / country of you

LGiamani

LGiamani wrote: »

I met a guy the other night in a club and was really into him. He was goodlooking chatty nice smile. I decieded to get jiggy with him but when I went to kiss him his pushed me away and wanted me instead to give him head. I walked away as IMO if he was the real deal kissing would'nt be a problem. I like shifting a guy it can tell you a little about the person

:eek:

He wanted you to give him head in the club ??

He was obviously the real deal, no straight chaps want a dude near their knob.

LGiamani

I think kissing is a nice way to start off always gets me going and if I shift first I'm up for anything apart from the really weird stuff

crotalus667

some guys just are not into kissing :rolleyes:

Dwn Wth Vwls

I've never heard a good reason why someone doesn't like kissing. Only reasons that boil down to complete insecurity or paranoia. Has anyone heard a good reason?

GalwayGuy92

maybe he has gingevitus/had a very bad experience once?

azezil

Could be worse, I've been talking to a guy who doesn't want to do anything *but* kissing. He doesn't even like the sight of a penis, doesn't like it when a guy goes down on him and wouldn't even consider going down on a guy. He find cum repulsive... Strange guy o_Ó

Rick_

What age is this person Azezil?

I wonder if he even masturbates if he finds cum repulsive? He must be very sexually frustrated, or he just stares at the ceiling while seeing to himself and hopes he can clean up afterwards without having to look down...

azezil

He has no issue jerking off with a guy, but that's as far as he'll go. He's 26.

Rick_

If he doesn't like the sight of a penis, how does he masturbate other guys then? Must seem very awkward all the fumbling about and no looking. How did you get talking to this guy, was it on here or a dating website or what?

crotalus667

Dwn Wth Vwls wrote: »

I've never heard a good reason why someone doesn't like kissing. Only reasons that boil down to complete insecurity or paranoia. Has anyone heard a good reason?

Who said any one needs a good reason for why they like / dislike doing some thing sexual ???

Locker10a

Sometimes i never kiss guys i just get straight 2 business !!
One of the mair reasons being really bad stubble (just makes it uncomfortable and also bad breath !

KnifeWRENCH

LGiamani wrote: »

when I went to kiss him his pushed me away and wanted me instead to give him head.

Woah! Charming. He's a keeper, that one. :rolleyes:
I'd say he's into kissing alright....just not on the mouth.

L1011

azezil wrote: »

How retro / country of you

Nothing wrong with that word, I spent a good 10 minutes trying to figure out a consise way to explain what shifting means to someone English there on Sunday.

Still ended up with nearly half a page!

Rick_

I can't say I'm familiar with the term myself, and I'm Irish!

L1011

Eternal Wonderer wrote: »

I can't say I'm familiar with the term myself, and I'm Irish!

Kissing thats a bit more than a kiss but unlikely to get you thrown out of a nightclub / done for statutory rape at a teenage disco, basically.

Dwn Wth Vwls

crotalus667 wrote: »

Who said any one needs a good reason for why they like / dislike doing some thing sexual ???

People can do what they like obviously, it just strikes me as something so basic and universal. It's also so commonly used as a stepping stone to anything further. That's why the story in the OP seems odd.

LGiamani

I rather kiss a guy I met in a nightclub and leave it at that looking for head after 5 minutes seems a tall order unless he is a real hottie even at that I would be a little militant about taking the snake out of his den

Rick_

MYOB wrote: »

Kissing thats a bit more than a kiss but unlikely to get you thrown out of a nightclub / done for statutory rape at a teenage disco, basically.

Go on....

azezil

MYOB wrote: »

Nothing wrong with that word, I spent a good 10 minutes trying to figure out a consise way to explain what shifting means to someone English there on Sunday.

Still ended up with nearly half a page!

I would have just described it (as my teenage nephew would say) as a "french kiss" ;P

Links234

azezil wrote: »

He has no issue jerking off with a guy, but that's as far as he'll go. He's 26.

Is he genophobic?

LGiamani

azezil wrote: »

He has no issue jerking off with a guy, but that's as far as he'll go. He's 26.

He must be philistine or a straight guy messing about I had that once and never again. He made me masturbate him but would return the favor.

Aard

He just wanted a shag, no more no less.

LookingFor

I know quite a lot of people who treat kissing as more intimate than actually having sex.

I puzzled at this for a bit too, but I guess kissing is a lot more romantically connotative than ****ing, so in a certain way it makes sense.

L1011

azezil wrote: »

I would have just described it (as my teenage nephew would say) as a "french kiss" ;P

That makes it almost sounds classy though. Going for the shift isn't classy

Frei

I know quite a lot of people who treat kissing as more intimate than actually having sex.

Ha ha I was just about to make that point! I do find kissing a very intimate thing. You can have sex with a person and still feel a bit separated from them but full on mouth wrestling can be very intense.

DubArk

LGiamani wrote: »

I met a guy the other night in a club and was really into him. He was goodlooking chatty nice smile. I decieded to get jiggy with him but when I went to kiss him his pushed me away and wanted me instead to give him head. I walked away as IMO if he was the real deal kissing would'nt be a problem. I like shifting a guy it can tell you a little about the person

I completely agree with you there! It’s the shifting that gets the juices flowing and it can be the make or break of that encounter… sounds to me, that he was putting in zero effort but looking for the whole salami and on his terms…. You did right by walking away!


He was a classic “Wham bam thank you maam” and in your case man!

LGiamani

A bit of loving goes along way to an enjoyable meet

TylerIE

LGiamani wrote: »

I met a guy the other night in a club and was really into him. He was goodlooking chatty nice smile. I decieded to get jiggy with him but when I went to kiss him his pushed me away and wanted me instead to give him head. I walked away as IMO if he was the real deal kissing would'nt be a problem. I like shifting a guy it can tell you a little about the person

I had the same problem with A FEW guys, they were "straight" or "curious" and felt kissing was too intimate... I tolerated it for a while but ultimately good luck to the lot of them...

Despite losing out on what was essentially a sexual relationship being able to kiss a guy is definitely worth it... A guy who cant be bothered kissing you if you want to is hardly worth it....