dont know where im at :(

LegacyUser

long story short bf of 3 years broke up with me sat night. we'v broken up before but always sorted out.. i just dont know what to do havent spoken to him since .
the last 6 months he has become really paranoid and controlling with drink and every argument we have always seems to be my fault so i apologize to keep the peace.. he says i dont listen to what he tells me to do. finally have had a wake up call that its not always my fault its his paranoid head every night turns into a drama or argument!

just so broken up about it at the moment.. should i contact him or leave things be? i am completely mad about him and love him so much it just hurts..
just need to vent this thought we were right for each other .. dont know what to do..

any advice would be great just feel so hurt at the moment...

thanks x

StarryMoon0

if there is drink issues, that needs to be sorted...
just so i am clear..your drink or his drink?

carmel27

You apologise just to keep the peace? Presumably, this means you sometimes accept responsibility for things going wrong when its not your fault? You describe him as paranoid and controlling. And you say that he says you dont do what he TELLS you to do?

Im sorry OP, but from what you've said, this guy sounds like a bully. And Im guessing the drink issues are his also? Your post was short, with not alot of info, but from what Ive read, you're best bet is to forget about him. The relationship sounds very troubled, and it sounds like this guy has the upper hand, alot, if not all, of the time. You say you love him, but why settle for a relationship like this? He obviously has some sort of issues, but shouldnt be taking them out on you.

Good Luck.