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Confused and Broken

  • 17-06-2010 3:50pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Just looking for opinions please.

    Broke up with my bf a couple of weeks ago as he had basically stopped talking to me, he is suffering a bit from depression, has a few other issues and lives in another country. We didn’t get to see a whole lot of each other but we spoke EVERY night and texts, emails every day.

    I did my best to support him but he didn’t know if he wanted support so I kind of ended up in a one sided relationship. When I split with him I felt I was letting him down and abandoning him when he needed me although he said that I did all I could and that he will never blame me.

    He has never told me that he doesn’t love me or want me in his life and no matter how many times I ask him he won’t say. I would prefer if he did as it would make more sense to me than not knowing.

    I love him withal my heart and would do anything to be with him again. All he says is that he is sorry and that I’m better off without him.

    I’m so confused I just don’t know where I stand or what to do. If I knew he loved me (which I think he does) I would wait til the end of time for him, but if he doesn’t I need to move on.

    I am getting out and about quite a bit but it doesn’t matter, he’s the person I want.


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  • #2
    LoughridgeL
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭LoughridgeL


    Love, you said you and he lived in different countries, correct?
    That in itself is a very difficult way to conduct a relationship, no matter how much you connect through e-mail, text, ect. it will never be the same as the constant connection through physical presence.

    It hurts, it never seems fair, and you feel responsible for him, but sometimes you just have to let go.

    Good luck. And cheer up, you're amazing. :)


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