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Girl in work

  • 15-06-2010 10:12am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi there

    Mid 20's male here, I have a massive crush on a girl I work with but am afraid to make a move for several reasons. Firstly, she said to me during normal conversation that she doesn't date people she works with, due to the potential for post-breakup awkwardness, which I can understand. Secondly, practically all of her friends are male, and the ones I met so far either have a history with her or tend to flirt with her when we're out. I wouldn't want that burning in the back of my head if something did happen between us. Finally she said she's not really looking for relationships right now, again during normal conversation.

    The thing that is egging me on however is the fact that we were out a few weeks ago, and my friends picked up on some serious flirting going on. We were both kinda drunk but she said that she had a crush on me at one point but didn't say if she still did. We went back to hers that night, but nothing happened, just kind of cuddled I guess. We also text a bit outside work, and we're constantly chatting on MSN during work :p So I'm not really sure what to do! Is anybody else in a similar situation, or has any advice?

    Thanks


Comments

  • #2
    ilovetosing
    Closed Accounts Posts: 74 ✭✭ilovetosing


    Eh...dude! Come on you have got the green light and as for the "I don't date people I work with" that's fair enough but she is defo up for the hookup! Just wait till you are out next and take a leap of faith! A leap that I very much doubt will turn out to be sour!

    Good luck.


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