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One way relationship

  • 15-06-2010 2:18am
    #1
    daveo90
    Closed Accounts Posts: 50 ✭✭


    One way relationship, nearly 4 years relationship

    I am in a relationship at the moment and I just feel that the relationship is just working because I keep it together.

    My boyfriend and I still live with our parents which makes staying over extremely hard. And we live over 1 hr 25 mins ago from each other.

    Every time I need to ask him to go out or visit to do something , generally it's always me asking to do stuff just to see him. He always says he misses me via text and online but generally when i say it first.

    I just find he has no desire to see me sometimes , and I just seem to be another thing he needs to do since he always busy with other things.

    I understand people need space but generally we go 2-3 weeks sometimes without seeing each other , and once 5 weeks due to work.

    I'm pretty sure he loves me , and I love him , but is it bad to feel this way , I dont wanta seem needy but does anyone else think they've experienced a one sided relationship?


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  • #2
    m@cc@
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,526 ✭✭✭m@cc@


    daveo90 wrote: »
    One way relationship, nearly 4 years relationship

    I am in a relationship at the moment and I just feel that the relationship is just working because I keep it together.

    My boyfriend and I still live with our parents which makes staying over extremely hard. And we live over 1 hr 25 mins ago from each other.

    Every time I need to ask him to go out or visit to do something , generally it's always me asking to do stuff just to see him. He always says he misses me via text and online but generally when i say it first.

    I just find he has no desire to see me sometimes , and I just seem to be another thing he needs to do since he always busy with other things.

    I understand people need space but generally we go 2-3 weeks sometimes without seeing each other , and once 5 weeks due to work.

    I'm pretty sure he loves me , and I love him , but is it bad to feel this way , I dont wanta seem needy but does anyone else think they've experienced a one sided relationship?

    I'm just going to cut to the chase with this. Until you confide in your OH your feelings and ask for answers from him, any further advice you recieve here will by futile in comparison. If the relationship is 4 years old, then the least you can expect is some honesty from him. If you want more from the relationship, then spell it out from him.

    The one your with may not necessarily be the one your meant to be with. Look for the answers and I'm sure you'll find them. Good luck. :)


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