Should I contact her?

Micahelxcx

Met this girl in pub six weeks ago. Got chatting, liked her. Asked her would she like to meet for coffee. She declined saying she was just out of a long term relationship.
Emailed her to say Hi a week later.
Wondering should i email her again and ask her if she would fancy meeting up or would she think me a stalker?

ManOfMystery

Well you've already asked her out and she said no, so why will it be any different this time?

Gyalist

Just drop her a generic "Hi" email. If you have number it would be even better if you gave her a call. Keep the conversation brief and positive and make sure that you end it fairly quickly without asking her out. Go out and enjoy your summer, and try to meet other girls as well.

dublingal80

im just out of a long term relationship too and if i was that girl, and someone asked if i wanted to go out for coffee and i said no and then they emailed me, i would only reply to them if i was interested

sorry dude but she just isnt ready for anything. delete her number and her email and go and meet girls that are ready to meet someone

bloatedbelly

Micahelxcx wrote: »

Met this girl in pub six weeks ago. Got chatting, liked her. Asked her would she like to meet for coffee. She declined saying she was just out of a long term relationship.
Emailed her to say Hi a week later.
Wondering should i email her again and ask her if she would fancy meeting up or would she think me a stalker?

6 weeks ago she declined your invite for coffee. you since emailed her and havent heard from her? sorry but try to move on

Micahelxcx

when I emailed her she mailed replied. I didn't ask her a second time 'cos I thought I would be seen as being pushy.
That's why I am wondering if I should now ask her again, when she might be feeling better. Or would I appear to be stalking her?

dublingal80

you asked her for coffee 6 weeks ago and she said she was coming out of a long term relationship.... 6 weeks isnt that long at all for her. It sounds like no matter what we say you want to contact her, so if thats what you really want to do, go for it

Kimia

Ah yea, why not. I'd say go for it, you only live once. But don't be surprised if she says no - it is a long shot after she already seems to have rejected you.

zxcvbnm1

Kimia wrote: »

Ah yea, why not. I'd say go for it, you only live once. But don't be surprised if she says no - it is a long shot after she already seems to have rejected you.

I'd definitely agree with the above.
Saying that, if hse says no again then definitekly don't ask again.

Your post wasn't clear though. You emailed her - you eventually told us she responded (the implication in your first mail suggested otherwise).

Whatwas her replylike?

Either way i would go for it one last time to get it out of your system.
She pribably will say no - but whi cares...that way you'll bne able to draw a line under it.

and who knows - she may admire your persistence and decide to giove it a go.