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Can I stay at boyfriend's house?

  • 08-06-2010 8:44pm
    #1
    straw
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭


    Im a single parent and live at home with my family. Am I allowed stay over the nite at my boyfriends house(father of child) or would i get in trouble if i did. He has never stayed over at my house but sees his child like 3 times a week for a few hours.


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  • #2
    fungun
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,120 ✭✭✭fungun


    er....get in trouble with who?


  • #3
    Raminahobbin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,983 ✭✭✭Raminahobbin


    I'm assuming you're quite young? 15/16?

    The only person who can answer this is your parents.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Are you on lone parents yes?

    I don't think the social welfare would mind but I'm open to correction. As long as you are not living together your still eligible.

    They just don't want you collecting welfare falsely. Surely the fact you are still together is a good thing as you can get back on your feet and wont need financial help in the future!


  • #5
    straw
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭straw


    sorry i mean like when ur on lone parent you can have a boyfriend stay with you!but can you stay at your boyfriends house like 2/3 days a week or would the social give out if they found out!!I dont want to live with him, i would like to stay sometimes though!

    I know hopefully when the job front looks up and baby gets bit older il find something. Id rather a job than look after baby!!!!!joke!!it is hard though!!


  • #6
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    You can stay over ocassionally with your bf, and hi with you as long as it's not more then 2/3 nights a week.


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  • #7
    mood
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,264 ✭✭✭mood


    What age are you? How long are you two going out? Do you see this as a long term relationship with a future? Why does he only see the child for a few hours a week? It all seems a little strange!


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