Girfriend watching porn

LegacyUser

I discovered that my girlfriend of 5 years has been watching porn on our computer. I was kinda pleased at first. We have a good sex life, well as good as it gets after 5 years. I am slightly concerned at the type of porn she was watching. It was lesbian porn and female masturbation. I always had a feeling she was bi sexual, but she has always denied this. She told me she once had a bit of drunken fun with a girl before we got together, but she's not interested in women. It wouldn't really bother me if she is. The thing is she has always denied being bi sexual, but now i discover she is watching lesbian porn. Either she's lying or I've just learned something new about women sexual fantasies.
This is a question for you women out there. Do ye prefer to watch lesbian porn? Do ye like to watch other women masturbate? Is my girlfriend bi sexual in your opinion?

KildareCross

when i watch porn i watch women also. Im not attracted to women or bisexual the porn is just better to look at. Its porn not real life. And i think nearlly all women have kissed a girl when drunk so i dont think you have anything to worry about

shellyboo

I watch lesbian porn because sometimes "regular" porn is a bit too hardcore and... objectifying, sort of, for my mood at the time. Also it's nice to watch cunnilingus, which is about as rare as a small penis in porno

I wouldn't say that watching lesbian porn makes your girlfriend bisexual - I'd class someone who would be happy in a relationship with either a man or a woman as bisexual, and being turned on by two women having sex doesn't mean your girlfriend wants to be in a relationship with a woman.

I think you need to understand the female pov when it comes to porn - while men watch it to look at the woman and imagine they're the man, a lot of women watch it to look at the woman and imagine they're the woman! That would include watching videos of women masturbating. It's really common and nothing to freak out about.

Kiera

It's prefectly normal for her to watch this kind of porn.

krudler

Perfectly normal, my missus watches lesbian porn as well, lets be honest lesbian porn is a lot...nicer I guess you'd say? you're not watching a girl get pounded, its mostly all kissing, touching and oral. women find that more sexually appealing than watching some guy jackhammer a poor girl for ages grunting away.

Have you watched it together? if not you should suggest or try it, its fun.

KildareCross

krudler wrote: »

Have you watched it together? if not you should suggest or try it, its fun.

yea you should try this you will learn more about each other. there is alwasy somethin to learn

polliepp

Hi OP,

You have nothing to worry about with your gf watching lesbian porn. A lot of females me included prefer lesbian porn. As other posters already mentioned lesbian porn is more about the appreciation of the female body - it's a lot more sensual and gentle and this appeals to many women.

Regular porn bores me a lot of the time. It's often a case that the woman reduced to a set of holes for the man to ram his cock into. But as a female I don't think I am the target audience.

I certainly wouldn't be thinking she is bi-sexual for watching it. My ex-boyfriend loved lesbian porn so we would watch together a lot but even I got bored with that after a bit.

Don't worry and take care

LegacyUser

Thanks everybody, good to know

LegacyUser

Hi OP,
Just to add that yes it is normal to watch lesbian porn. I am by no means a lesbian, but watching women in porn is exciting, and it helps that they are (normally) pretty. Let's face it, girl bits are prettier than men's. (imho anyway.) And sometimes the things we fantasise about may not be something we wish to act out in our normal every day sex lives.

But I would suggest that you talk to her about it anyway. If you have a hunch she might be bisexual, you need to clear the air for yourself.

Oh, one other thing, Stop snooping at her viewing history!! It's intrusive, and you wouldn't like it if she did it to you!!

Best of luck.

ted1

perfectly normal, female form is way better than mens. willies are generally considered ugly and unattractive. (i did say genreally) where as a womens breasts, hips, abs, legs, virgina are way more excting to look at.

also genreally in porn all the man does it hammer it in the female, where as two females take time to tease each other and are more gentle lovers. tongues etc, right i'm off to cool down..

personally i'd be so turned on to find my misses looking at it.

LegacyUser

I wasn't snooping, i discovered it by mistake, she's using google chrome and it showed up in a tab when i hovered over it.

We don't normally keep secrets from eachother and we don't have a problem talking about stuff, i just needed to hear it from other people too because it was niggling me a little.

I showed her this thread yesterday evening, she/we had a good laugh. She said "now do you believe me? "

I do.

Thanks again everybody.

willytit

Fantastic. Glad it worked out for you.