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Girl in Gym

  • 31-05-2010 9:30am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    This is a seemingly simple enough situation but I just cant think of what to do...

    A girl that works in the gym i go to i quite fancy and i noticed that she would oftne throw me glances etc. Last couple of weeks it's been a lot more obvious than that. Not sure how best to explain it, but you know when you fancy someone and they look back at you and you know it's mutual.

    Anyway, the purpose of this post is, what do I do about it??

    Obvious answer is to just start chatting to her and ask her out. But, it is kind of tough to just strike up a conversation in the gym (her workplace) without coming across as a bit creepy or am i being a bit paranoid?

    Any suggestions?


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    personally i think this is a no brainer. ask her out, simple as that. its awful and daunting but if you dont ask you'll never know will you. i may be jumping the gun here but do you chat to her normally? even just a quick hello. if not then start by doing that and then after a little while bite the bullet and ask her would she like to go for a drink sometime. If she says yes then happy days and if she says no the chalk it down to experience and be happy with yourself that you had the balls to ask her


  • #3
    Jenneke87
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 807 ✭✭✭Jenneke87


    Hi there,

    I don´t think it would be creepy. Personally, I´d feel very flattered if a man came up an talked to me :)

    See if there´s a quiet moment where you can walk over and talk to her. There´s nothing to lose if there´s already something obvious going on between the two of you.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks for the replies.

    I know you're right, that I have to just get the balls to ask her out. It's just that it is a difficult enough environment to randomly just start chatting to someone. Also, I am a bit concerned that it would be a bit inappropriate as it is where she works.

    But you're right, nothing ventured nothing gained I suppose..


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