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another "friend" post :-(

  • 31-05-2010 8:57am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    im sure this will be all too famililar to people here but iv just fell victim to the "i think your a lovely guy but i think we should be friends". I am head over heels about this girl who is one of my best friends but now things have changed slightly. she is away travelling for the summer, when she left she said she understands if I dont want to talk to her anymore(she blames herself for this). I want nothing more than to be able to talk to her everyday but I know I will only make things harder on myself. We used to speak everyday and now I havnt spoken to her in almost 2 weeks. When I woke up this morning for some reason I have this urge to speak to her and I almost feel sick at the thought of not speaking to her but at the same time I need to get over her and move on. Its so hard and Im so confused as to what to do? anyone got any advice?


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  • #2
    HavingCrack
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,847 ✭✭✭HavingCrack


    I don't really know what sort of reply you want to be honest but my advice is just leave it and move on-plenty more fish in the sea and all that. Go out and find a girl who's funnier, smarter, better looking etc than the one you're infatuated with and you'll soon be over your love sickness. Apart from that I'd advise being in contact with this girl again-you'll only end up getting more and more hurt.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi OP here,
    she just actually emailed me a few minutes ago. il be honest i feel a bit sick. dont know what to do. wanna chat to her like we used to but that wont help me moving on. catch 22.


  • #4
    SirDelboy18
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,988 ✭✭✭SirDelboy18


    Leave it. If you persue you'll only be wasting time which could be better spent on meeting new women.

    Maybe one day it'll prove to be fate that ye were meant to wind up together, but for now, it wont happen.

    My admittedly tough to take advice, move on.


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