Not sure what to do

Hurricane-Dean

Ok so i'm recently out of a long term relationship (almost 5 years) we split up a few months ago, basically things went really bad and we couldn't stand each other anymore. We both moved on so that's not really my point.

I met a girl a on a night out and we gave each other our numbers etc. I went to the cinema and on a night out with her friends and mine, nothing serious just a good time. Got a text today from a friend asking me if I was interested in his girlfriends mate that i was talking to at a bbq, she's very good looking, slightly put off by the fact she has a kid though. I'm going out with the first girl I met again this Friday and my mate asked me to go out with his girlfriend and her friend on the Thursday. I don't know if I should or not, I don't really see anything happening with either girls, not really interested in a relationship for a while.

Need advice, even if I sound stupid

elleburp

Go for it. Why not?

Hurricane-Dean

Ha short and to the point, i like it

vicecreamsundae

yeah, i think you should go, they are only dates. just be upfront, if the topic of rships comes up mention you just got out of a long term rship and dont want anything too serious for a while. just dont turn it into a huuuge big rant about your ex or anything!

ash23

If you aren't seeing a relationship with the girl who has the child, because she has a child, then don't start something because the kid is going nowhere.

I had a guy do this to me before and it's horrible. I was upfront about the fact I had a child and we dated for a while before he told me that he wasn't interested in a relationship because of my daughter.

Fair enough it's your perogative to stay clear of someone with a child but if you know this is a deal breaker for you then don't start dating her.

sbsquarepants

You don't need to settle down with every girl you go on a date with
Go out have a laugh, you'll be a long time dead.
Just don't lead anyone on, it's a s'hitty thing to do!

KildareCross

Its only a date sure what have u got to loose If you dont go you'll just regret it

Hurricane-Dean

Cheers for the replies, ah no it's nothing to do with the fact that she has a child at all, i just don't want to get into a relationship at the moment. I wouldn't turn it into a rant, not really my thing. I just want to go out and have a laugh is all.

KildareCross

Hurricane-Dean wrote: »

I just want to go out and have a laugh is all.

Dont we all