Breakup taking over

LegacyUser

Hi there

Myself and my gf of 15 months broke up there nearly two weeks ago. The breakup was pretty acrimonious due to something that happened which she maintained is entirely my fault, but I won't go into that now (it wasn't cheating or anything like that). She wanted me to try and fix things, but from where I could see, the damage was done to the relationship was so severe that I couldn't see it happening ; she said some really nasty things to me during the course of that week that would stick in the back of my head if we did get back together and undermine the relationship. I think neither of our familes or friends would have wanted to see us get back together either, it was a horrible mess. When I told her this, she told me never to contact her again, that she was deleting my number, and in what I thought was an especially cruel finale, she told me that I wouldn't be too hard to get over as it was a long distance thing we were doing ...

I was so angry with her, what she said and the situation in general initially. But now that the anger has subsided a bit, the actual sense of loss is catching up with me and the awareness of the void that's been left in my life and how much I miss her. We had so many great times together, she did wreck my head at times and Im sure I did the same, and there were things that needed to be worked on, but now all that has gone. We'll probably never see each other again and our shared time together will fade into the past. She deleted me on Facebook, and I know I shouldn't be torturing myself looking at hers, but I can still see her profile, and her wall posts, which have been all chirpy and full of !!!'s which kinda hurts. She has gone on holidays today and I'm gutted I'm not with her. I just wish I could turn back the clock three weeks and change the way things went down.

Anyway, just venting really, any opinions welcome though, cheers!

LegacyUser

Hi sorry for your pain mate, pretty much the same. I was in Canada and she was here. I was accussed of being involved of something, It was to do with a nasty voicemail to MY mailbox "leave xxxxx alone"............long story. When I asked her did she know the number she said yea, her ex got a txt from that number!!, which she rang (before we hookedup) and chatted to this guy. So how the fcuk did I know who this person was. So I was "in cohoots with her ex and mates" I dont know her ex nor do I want to by what she told me about him. Gutted is not the word i would use.

I stopped contact as til I got home 7 wks later, txt her I was home and got basically **** back from her.One of the hardest things Ive done was delete her number but I had to for my own sake, drunk one night and I deleted her from facebook and cried then went to add as a friend she never added me.
Move on mate it's hard and the pain will be bad but for YOUR own sake forget her. Its good to vent lol

Moomoo1

let me guess... is this grannygate part II?

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055909575

seenitall

Moomoo1 wrote: »

let me guess... is this grannygate part II?

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055909575

lmao ... grannygate!

Well spotted.