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Whats the best way

  • 26-05-2010 12:30am
    #1
    PTH2009
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 39,464 ✭✭✭✭


    im starting to feel abit lonley and just wondering what way could i go about getting a girlfriend or even meeting a girl. I knw life is not like in hollywood movies and theres someone out there for everyone and all that ****e.

    Things in the past are in the past.

    would appriate any advice. thanks


Comments

  • #2
    Uriel.
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,062 ✭✭✭Uriel.


    Being lonely is never the best time to look for a girlfriend. In fact if u ask me, it's never a good time to "look". Instead, let whatver happens happen, usually things strike when you least expect it. (cliche I know etc)

    if you are lonley get out more, go places, meet new people and yes chat up girls, but don't chat them up with the goal to be them being a medium to long-term partner, just talk to them cos they interest you in the here and now and be open minded, if something develops, great, if not then maybe you've increased your friend count by one.

    Don't try so hard to find a girlfriend just look for friends etc and see what happens, in my experience those relationships born out of mutual understanding and friendship are much better, stronger and real, but that's just me


  • #3
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    I'm not being funny but pop along to a Boards beers. It seems to be were good relationships begin :)


  • #4
    arsenallegend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 712 ✭✭✭arsenallegend


    if you are looking or going out for a reltionship you won't find it
    its when your not looking for one is when reltionships come together
    thats what happened to me anyway

    i'm in the same boat as you lonely and alone but i like it that way in a sad way. all those reltionships i had were with women i didn't like but thinking it could be my only chance with women i got into a reltionship with them. Big mistake.


  • #5
    lillywhite1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 62 ✭✭lillywhite1


    Yeah, I agree with most of the other posts. Also, I have been in a similar position in the past and I am not sure that a girlfriend is the right answer cause then if anything goes wrong you are back to square one. Either go along to boards beers of just go out with some friends and have a good time and you will feel much better about yourself and your current situation.


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