A Somewhat Harrowing News Story

Wacker

(CNN) -- When 4-year-old Ethan Stacy was reluctantly sent off to spend the summer with his mother late last month, he was in effect being given a death sentence.
The child never had a chance. He was dead within two weeks of arriving at the apartment in Layton, Utah, where his mother lived with her fiancé.
What could have been done to save him?
"I don't have a good answer for you," Layton police Lt. Garret Atkin, one of many law enforcement officers in Davis County, Utah, who are grieving for the boy who lived among them so briefly, told me.
The facts of what happened to Ethan speak for themselves:
He was living with his father, Joe G. Stacy, in Richlands, Virginia. Stacy and his estranged wife, Stephanie, were involved in divorce proceedings. The divorce was being adjudicated in Florida, where they had lived before she moved west.
Joe Stacy, in a divorce court filing last November, warned of his fears.
His estranged wife was "unstable," he wrote to the court: "The mother has abandoned the child and I'm afraid the mother will come and take him and I'll never see him again."
But the judge in the divorce case, Maura T. Smith, told The Associated Press that she never read the filing. Judge Smith said that Ethan's parents had worked out a settlement, including shared custody, and that the finalization of their divorce last month was "cut and dried."
Part of the decree was that Ethan would live with his dad during the school year, and with his mother during the summer.
The child reportedly did not want to go to Utah with her. "I did not want him to go, and he didn't want to go at all," Joe Stacy told the Salt Lake Tribune. "He kept telling me he didn't want to go."
But in late April, the divorce agreement newly in effect, the boy was put on a plane to fly to Utah with his mother.
What allegedly happened next is described in affidavits prepared by the Layton Police Department:
Ethan, his mother and her fiancé, Nathan Sloop, began living in their Layton home.
On May 5, Nathan Sloop, 31, took the 4-year-old child into a bedroom and began slapping and hitting him on the face and head, police said. Ethan's face began to swell. Police said his mother did not alert anyone or seek medical attention for her son.
On May 6, the couple went to the county courthouse in Farmington, Utah, to get married. They did not bring Ethan with them. The reason, according to police, was that they were "afraid to take him out in public with the swelling and bruising to his face," because they thought that if anyone saw Ethan's injuries, they would call authorities.
So, police detectives said, they removed the inside doorknob of the bedroom where they left Ethan, so he could not get out.
For the next three days, police said, Ethan was vomiting, was lethargic, had a fever, and was not able to eat. His symptoms were consistent with a possible brain injury. Instead of trying to help the child, Nathan Sloop engaged in "a systematic and progressively more violent pattern of abuse."
But no one knew. Joe Stacy had called his son every day after the child had been sent to Utah, but he told the Salt Lake Tribune that beginning on May 5, his former wife began to make excuses on the phone for why the boy could not talk to him. "I never did get a call back," Stacy told the paper.
On May 7, police said, Stephanie Sloop returned home from shopping to find that Ethan had been scalded on his feet, legs and buttocks. Nathan Sloop said the boy had burned himself in the bathtub.
Joe Stacy continued to try to call his son, but to no avail.
On May 9 -- Mother's Day -- Ethan was found dead in his bed.
Police said that Nathan and Stephanie Sloop did not notify anyone, but instead began "to formulate a plan to dispose of the body and deceive law enforcement."
The couple, according to police, wrapped garbage bags around the child's body and drove to Powder Mountain.
Police said Nathan Sloop took a hammer to Ethan's face and teeth, in an effort to make him unrecognizable should anyone ever find him. The boy was then buried.
Late the next night, Stephanie Sloop reported the child missing. She told the Layton police that Ethan had walked away from home. Some 40 officers, in foul weather, searched for the child. But before long the Sloops' story began to fall apart. Late on the afternoon of May 11, officers digging in the mud recovered his body.
Nathan and Stephanie Sloop are being held in the Davis County Jail. He is being held on suspicion of aggravated murder, felony child abuse, obstruction of justice and desecration of a corpse. She is being held on suspicion of felony child abuse, obstruction of justice and desecration of a corpse.
The Davis County prosecutor, Troy Rawlings, told me that he will file formal charges by next Friday, when the Sloops are scheduled to appear in court.
The body of Ethan Stacy, who had never wanted to leave his father in the first place, was flown back to Virginia last week. That is where, with summer coming, he was buried, this time with dignity and with love.

http://edition.cnn.com/2010/OPINION/05/20/greene.ethan.stacy/index.html?hpt=C2

Terrible as this case may be, can I ask that posters resist the urge to describe the tortures that they would to inflict on the perpetrators? Such fantasies should not be indulged, imho.

Biggins

Sadly these type of cases are all too often.
There is no adequate words to say what should be done with such people to be honest, if actions was just based on emotions.

The best we can do, again in all honestly is lock the culprits up and throw away the key

Methvet Nian

Proof that sometimes the mother is not the better parent.

gooch2k9

A case where i do hope life indeed means life.

fonecrusher1

Yup, unlike our donkey justice system, these two creatures will go down for a long long time i'd say.

Poor little fella.

Indubitable

Methvet Nian wrote: »

Proof that sometimes the mother is not the better parent.

In most cases, mother and father are both equally capable parents. The only reason anyone could think that the mother is the better parent is that mothers can breast feed and fathers can't.

MagicMarker

Methvet Nian wrote: »

Proof that sometimes the mother is not the better parent.

Methvet Nian

MagicMarker wrote: »

The court will usually award custody of the child to the mother. In this example, it was shared custody. It was clear the child did not want to be with his mother, and his father had told the court she was unstable.

Why then did the court say she should have custody of the child? Because it is assumed that custody should go to the mother.

StormWarrior

Methvet Nian wrote: »

Why then did the court say she should have custody of the child? Because it is assumed that custody should go to the mother.

Did you read what was written? It said they were sharing custody.

Dudess

That made me well up...

MagicMarker wrote: »

Well our justice system would seem to reflect the notion that the child is always better off with their mother.

Wetbench4

Methvet Nian wrote: »

Proof that sometimes the mother is not the better parent.

I think meth is referring to the fact that in a lot of countries the father has little or no rights when it comes to the child, during or after a break-up.

Stercus Accidit

kingofthe3rdyrs wrote: »

In most cases, mother and father are both equally capable parents. The only reason anyone could think that the mother is the better parent is that mothers can breast feed and fathers can't.

Its a sham the idea that a mother is by default the better choice for custody.

It will die out as did discrimination against blacks, homosexuals, and other societal 'norms' that have no place in a modern society.

The days of the stay at home wife and bread winner father are already dying, equal parental rights should be in place, hopefully sooner rather than later.

stovelid

That poor child. Jesus Christ, how can people do this kind of stuff?

EraseAndRewind

poor little baby RIP

PK2008

Wow thats depressing


Thanks for sharing that OP

El Siglo

I'm not shocked or surprised any more by these stories, after Jamie Bulger and baby P it's just another unfortunate child.

Jay P

Why do I read these things? Such a horrifying story...

banshee_bones

That is just the saddest thing....

I don't even know what to say, it's just too awful.

PeterIanStaker

I genuinely don't know what to say. This is like Baby P. There are some people who shouldnt be allowed own a goldfish, not to mind raise a kid.

Wacker

PK2008 wrote: »

Wow thats depressing


Thanks for sharing that OP

You're welcome.

Overheal

Absolutely Disgusting.

Im surprised he was given majority custody in Florida of all places. Child Services treat my father like a convict anytime he needs to contact them about payments.

And they don't even check to see if the money is getting to my siblings. I can tell you it isn't. Just trust the mother; All is well :rolleyes:

bronte

How anyone could treat any living thing in that manner, let alone her own kid is beyond me.

L.Jenkins

Wacker wrote: »

Terrible as this case may be, can I ask that posters resist the urge to describe the tortures that they would to inflict on the perpetrators? Such fantasies should not be indulged, imho.

In all honesty, how could you not want to cause harm to the woman. The child was only four. As I've said before, a license is needed to drive a car.

kylith

That poor, poor little boy.

G_R

i am truly sickened by that, like seriously how can anyone bring them selves to take a hammer to the poor kids face? Animals.

Rest in Peace little dude

Pace2008

Methvet Nian wrote: »

Proof that sometimes the mother is not the better parent.

Mothers are actually more likely to abuse or kill their children.

Link

El Weirdo

djhunter30 wrote: »

In all honesty, how could you not want to cause harm to the woman. The child was only four. As I've said before, a license is needed to drive a car.

Not to mention owning a dog.

sarahlulu

Oh the poor little man. May he sleep well.

davyjose

Biggins wrote: »

The best we can do, again in all honestly is lock the culprits up and throw away the key

Not even close to the best we can do TBQH.