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What makes a girl bad in bed??

  • 17-05-2010 09:02PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey all

    Im just wondering what exactly makes a girl bad in bad? I've heard a few guys recently talking about girls who are crap in bed and it worries me that I'm crap in bed! I'm relatively inexperienced for my age (I'm 27 and have been with 3 guys) so I think its something that I'm a bit paranoid about!


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  • #2
    ted1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,131 ✭✭✭✭ted1


    if you lie there like a bag of potatoes your very bad in bed.

    foreplay is good, touching , licking, sucking (not just the penis), general teasing. a slow strip is good.

    if the guy is doing something you particular don't like, tell him, if he does something you do like, tell him. Change positions every now and then, rock with him, move in rythmn, don't just take it, show some initaive.

    take a spin on top, it'll probbaly not be as enjoyable for you (so i'm told) but the guy likes to look at you and your bits.

    have fun, thats what your there for. don't be afraid to let loose noise wise, don't fake it, you'll never get him to pleasure you if you fake it.

    best advice is to find a pertner your comfortable with to experiment with, that way you can give each other feedback.

    enjoy ;)


  • #3
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    ted1 wrote: »
    take a spin on top, it'll probbaly not be as enjoyable for you (so i'm told)

    Huh?:confused:

    Good sex takes two people. It's about being uninhibited, willing to lose yourself in the moment, being body confident, having the confidence to express what you do and don't like and overall NOT overthinking it.

    These guys who are talking about chicks who are bad in bed presumeably didn't do it for the girl and the guy in question now has a hang-up about it, and is getting their spoke in before they think the girl will.

    OR they've been watching so much porn that unless a girl takes a load of cum all over her face, has had her a$$hole bleached and is able to squirt on the first date then she's deemed frigid:eek:


  • #4
    myfatherrsson
    Closed Accounts Posts: 107 ✭✭myfatherrsson


    for the love of GOD mind the teeth!:o


  • #5
    seenitall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,727 ✭✭✭seenitall


    If you are with a guy who finds it necessary to rate your sexual performance, than you are with the wrong guy. So then the whole good/bad point becomes moot.

    Aim to be with someone who cares about you, first and foremost. Sex will then become making love, and making love is a mutual act of creation where you will not feel rated or graded on some fictional scale of sexual performance, but as cherished, satisfied and fulfilled as you are making him. If there is mutual trust and respect, there is no problem in sack that can't be discussed and improved upon.

    If you go the route of casual encounters, or are thinking of doing so, well, prepare to be rated, but I wouldn't worry about it too much in that case, tbh...

    Good luck with it!


  • #6
    ash23
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,791 ✭✭✭ash23


    I'm sure there are guys out there who would say I'm crap in bed and ones who would say I'm amazing.

    If I'm into a guy I'm enthusiastic and that always seems to be the one factor that makes it good.

    If he's annoying me, I'm going off him or I'm too drunk then I get lazy and messy and can't be overly bothered. I'd imagine that makes me bad in bed.

    Effort and enthusiasm seems to be the key. But it works both ways :p


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  • #7
    Des Carter
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 720 ✭✭✭Des Carter


    something like 75% of the pleasure we gain from sex comes from the emotional rather than the physical. However that is never really talked about or mentioned so people dont focus on it and assume that it only applies to long-term relationships or whatever but it doesnt. (as long as you dont go ovrboard).


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