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Did you make any promises to yourself as a child?

  • 16-05-2010 3:06pm
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    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,556 ✭✭✭


    I found out recently that a guy I was friendly with in primary school killed himself. I had lost touch with him, but it was obviously still quite a horrible thing to hear. As you would expect it started me thinking about the days we shared, and I remembered quite vividly him telling me that no matter how bad things got in his life, he would never kill himself.

    I doubt his thoughts were of those days with whatever it was that forced him to take his life obviously at the forefront of his mind, but it made me wonder about my own promises, and what it might take to make me break them.

    Did you make promises to yourself? Did you keep them?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,148 ✭✭✭plein de force


    No


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,456 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    Promises to yourself? This isn't the movies you know.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,221 ✭✭✭✭m5ex9oqjawdg2i


    I promised to not drink or smoke until I was 21 so I could get extra money at confirmation :P

    I done well, 3 years :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,592 ✭✭✭✭Dont be at yourself


    I promised not to read this thread, and I regret breaking that promise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,399 ✭✭✭✭r3nu4l


    I don't remember it but apparently I told my parents when I was small that I was going to live in a house with bay windows (rounded bays).

    25 years later...I live in a house with rounded bay windows!!

    It must have seriously ingrained itself somewhere in my subconcious because I still don't remember saying it. :eek:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,339 ✭✭✭✭tman


    After seeing first hand the damage that infidelity can do to a family, I vowed to always be faithful to whoever I was seeing.

    I was only a little kid at the time, but I've stuck with it and intend to for the rest of my life:)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,688 ✭✭✭Kasabian


    I promised myself I would never treat women like I had seen them treated as I grew up.

    So they have walked all over me


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,590 ✭✭✭Reg'stoy


    Learn proper speeling or grammer,


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,488 ✭✭✭pikachucheeks


    I promised I'd never smoke and years later, I've never even tried it ... but on the other hand, I also said I'd never dye my hair :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,555 ✭✭✭✭AckwelFoley


    When i was a child i promised myself i would never be afraid of the boogy man.

    Years later it turns out i am the boogy man.

    Boo.


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  • Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    r3nu4l wrote: »
    I don't remember it but apparently I told my parents when I was small that I was going to live in a house with bay windows (rounded bays).

    I don't think this was a promise to myself as a child but since I was a child I've always wanted a bay window to put the christmas tree in - like in the movies :pac:

    I've got my bay window too :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,039 ✭✭✭bazmaiden


    To never be on the dole


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,417 ✭✭✭Archeron


    To kill Jaws


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,417 ✭✭✭Archeron


    Archeron wrote: »
    To kill Jaws

    The shark, not the bond character


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,039 ✭✭✭bazmaiden


    Archeron wrote: »
    To kill Jaws

    I read that as jews first!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 357 ✭✭MmmmmCheese


    I said to myself that I'd never smoke......That promise went out the window somewhere along the way.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,727 ✭✭✭Midnight_EG


    I promised myself I'd be a good Dad :o



    Still a ways off that though, only 18 :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,484 ✭✭✭Quackles


    To do up a double decker bus like a camper van and drive around like in Summer Holiday. Anyone selling?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    I think I was a pretty strange child! I wrote myself a book of things to do when I was a grown up :pac: It went along the lines of, "Don't talk too much on the phone, always remember how fun Barbies are" :rolleyes: I'm doing okay so far, hate phone calls and Barbies aren't so bad either! :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 250 ✭✭I_am_LOST


    When I was in 1st year in school I was nowhere near as pretty as all the other girls in my year. I was a late developer and had a chest as flat as a pancake! I made a promise to myself that if by the time I was 18 I still wasn't happy with my looks and if I didnt get boobs, I'd get plastic surgery!

    What a silly promise lol

    Don't know how I expected to afford it :D


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,727 ✭✭✭Midnight_EG


    I_am_LOST wrote: »
    When I was in 1st year in school I was nowhere near as pretty as all the other girls in my year. I was a late developer and had a chest as flat as a pancake! I made a promise to myself that if by the time I was 18 I still wasn't happy with my looks and if I didnt get boobs, I'd get plastic surgery!

    What a silly promise lol

    Don't know how I expected to afford it :D

    Hello Miss, this is the After Hours Enforcement Agency.

    As is standard procedure, Tits, or kindly GTFO.

    Yours, AHEA.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,111 ✭✭✭ShagNastii


    Might not be along the line of what the OP means but little shagnastii promised when he was bigger and earned loads of money he'd go to Wrestlemania.

    I've grown out of wrestling since then but when wrestlemania comes to London(surely within the next ten years) I'm 100% sure me and my mates, who watched hulk hogan and bret hart years ago, will be the first to buy tickets. Childhood reunion i guess.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,220 ✭✭✭✭biko


    When I lived in Derry in 1957 there was suddenly a spate of killings one summer and some friends and me managed to fight this clown, only it wasn't a clown, that killed my baby brother.
    We then all left Derry except for Mike who stayed behind and became the librarian.
    Before we left we all swore that if the monster ever returned we would all come back to fight it again.
    Many years later, in 1984, Mike rang us all as the killings had started again.
    We all returned to fight and this time kill the monster.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,768 ✭✭✭almostnever


    After my physics exam last year, I promised myself I'd never let myself feel that way after an exam again. It's not looking good, but hopefully I can keep my promise this time around. :)

    There are others of course, but some are really personal.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,964 ✭✭✭ToniTuddle


    I promised myself I would get a good job and save up loads of money to look after my family.


    >.<

    I'm in the process of making that happen just gonna take another few years. :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,659 ✭✭✭CrazyRabbit


    I never expected to survive to adulthood, so never made any promises to myself.

    Man, that got deep & depressing really quickly. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,779 ✭✭✭up for anything


    biko wrote: »
    When I lived in Derry in 1957 there was suddenly a spate of killings one summer and some friends and me managed to fight this clown, only it wasn't a clown, that killed my baby brother.
    We then all left Derry except for Mike who stayed behind and became the librarian.
    Before we left we all swore that if the monster ever returned we would all come back to fight it again.
    Many years later, in 1984, Mike rang us all as the killings had started again.
    We all returned to fight and this time kill the monster.

    :confused: What are you on about?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,553 ✭✭✭Banned Account


    My parole terms would not allow me to make promises to children:(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    I remember when I was around 4 or 5 I said to my mam that I am going to have loads and loads of children and I will never give out to them, even if they killed somebody :eek:
    Thankfully I didn't manage to get myself onto Jeremy Kyle just yet.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    biko wrote: »
    When I lived in Derry in 1957 there was suddenly a spate of killings one summer and some friends and me managed to fight this clown, only it wasn't a clown, that killed my baby brother.
    We then all left Derry except for Mike who stayed behind and became the librarian.
    Before we left we all swore that if the monster ever returned we would all come back to fight it again.
    Many years later, in 1984, Mike rang us all as the killings had started again.
    We all returned to fight and this time kill the monster.

    Cujo elaborate a bit more?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,288 ✭✭✭✭Standard Toaster


    To become an octopus so I could hug ten people at a time!

    I was an idiot child


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 370 ✭✭D1976


    biko wrote: »
    When I lived in Derry in 1957 there was suddenly a spate of killings one summer and some friends and me managed to fight this clown, only it wasn't a clown, that killed my baby brother.
    We then all left Derry except for Mike who stayed behind and became the librarian.
    Before we left we all swore that if the monster ever returned we would all come back to fight it again.
    Many years later, in 1984, Mike rang us all as the killings had started again.
    We all returned to fight and this time kill the monster.


    Poor Georgie, he loved those balloons


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,399 ✭✭✭✭r3nu4l


    stovelid wrote: »
    Cujo elaborate a bit more?

    I believe it happened near the Pet cemetary, I had insomnia at the time, so did my friends Carrie and Christine.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,647 ✭✭✭✭Fago!


    To become an octopus so I could hug ten people at a time!

    I was an idiot child

    Hahaha. Brilliant. :)


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,110 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    To not get those stupid girl cooties.

    fail. :(


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,327 ✭✭✭Sykk


    I promised myself I'd play inter county level GAA: Check
    I'd grow up to be really successful: Not going too bad
    I wouldn't ever smoke: Check
    I'd always keep in contact with my friends: Nope

    That's about the height of it!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,072 ✭✭✭PeterIanStaker


    Honestly no. I lost interest in promising myself stuff after I found out you couldn't become a Ninja Turtle:mad:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,164 ✭✭✭hobochris


    No Fat Chicks! :D


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,110 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    *before 2am


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,727 ✭✭✭Midnight_EG


    To not get those stupid girl cooties.

    fail. :(

    All that, then you turned into one :(


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 557 ✭✭✭drunkymonkey


    When i was about 8 or 9 i always promised to my mum that if i needed glasses when i was older that i was getting contact lenses because i thought glasses were seen as uncool and none of the tough guys in movies ever wore them!

    16 years later i have glasses but only rarely ware them....

    (I realized superman wore them and he's a tough guy! :P )


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭Lemegeton


    growing up me and my siblings had **** all and my parents barely managed financially to raise us, put us through school etc.. I made a promise to myself when i was growing up that i would never let that happen to my kids. I am not going to start a family unless i can provide for them and not be worrying about the mortage payment month after month.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Lemegeton wrote: »
    I am not going to start a family unless i can provide for them and not be worrying about the mortage payment month after month.

    Can you let me in on your secret of making such accurate predictions of the next 18 years?


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