Ideas to cheer someone up

Susie_Q

Perhaps this isn't very AH-y, but I'm looking for some ideas to cheer up a friend who has just been dumped out of the blue after a 3 year relationship. Not sure what to say to her let alone how to cheer her up.

Anyone got any serious/ silly/ fun ideas?

Indubitable

Find her a "friend with benefits"

PhysiologyRocks

Melt marshmallows!

It's a lot more fun than it sounds...:cool:

yermandan

Jaysus there's not a lot you can do to help anybody in that situation. Anything will invariably be just a distraction!

Go on the lash I suppose?

pebbles21

How about keeping your nose out of it!

Turtyturd

Give her a nice big full on kiss, record it and post it on here.

E.T.

Just make sure to do something with her as often as possible - cinema, lunch, dinner. She'll probably appreciate the company more than anything you could give her (no dirty jokes please!)

Cupcake_Crisis

A big girly night in, or out, having company might help

alwaysadub

Just be there for her. If she wants to go out,let her know you'll go with her. If she wants to be left alone,give her a bit of space. She'll know herself that you're there for her.

Biggins

pebbles21 wrote: »

How about keeping your nose out of it!

Thats not very nice.
A true good friend will be there for support if its needed without over-interfering.

OP - I'm sorry to hear that your friend and Tiger Wood's broke up!
At least she was not on her own that week I suspect.

dermothickey

Ask her to help you with something, it will take her mind off things and won't make her feel like your helping her out of sympathy

admiralofthefleet

get her a dildo

The_Kew_Tour

Be there for her, as a friend should and she will appreciate you so much in long run

Duggy747

Strip-Club!!!

Either that or get her hooked on Heroin, should take the edge off.

I'm quite useless when in your position OP, it's fairly hard to cheer someone up when they've been in a relationship that long. I would say have a few pints but I dunno what you wimmen drink nowadays, Diet Heinekin? :pac:

Suppose all you can do is hang around with her and do some stuff together, watch some funny films or something

m5ex9oqjawdg2i

pebbles21 wrote: »

How about keeping your nose out of it!

I'll take a wild stab here, but do you lack the fortune of having friends?


OP, take them out for a meal maybe? Girly night in with some DVD's and lots of munchies? Go for a long drive somewhere or a trip out of your area to somewhere nice? Have a chat and be there for her...

Nemanja91

Buy the inbetweeners set for her

IvySlayer

Puppies

phill106

Motorboat her. If she doesn't laugh her arse off then, all hope is gone.



Ps.... video it

stovelid

Give her Axminster a good clean for her.

gagiteebo

pebbles21 wrote: »

How about keeping your nose out of it!

I hope you're messing

If not, I'd hate to have you as a 'friend'

crow_eat_crow

An enormous hug can do wonders

orourkeda

Don't do anything out of the ordinary.

I find it's best to leave people get over it themselves. Everyone does in the end. Just make sure they have a shoulder to cry on if they need it.

orourkeda

stovelid wrote: »

Give her Axminster a good clean for her.

A redtube link would be helpful.

A good rug cleaning session would cheer us all up.

ejmaztec

Tell her there's plenty more fish in the sea, even blind ones for complete fecking losers like her. That'll make her smile.

Biggins

kingofthe3rdyrs wrote: »

Find her a "friend with benefits"

With the amount of unemployed at present - that should be easy!

Paulyh

rent a boat.........buy 3 mini kegs of beer. and bring them with you to the middle of dublin bay. get nude, and wave to the ferries coming in. that would cheer the hell out of me!!!
ok, thats my plan for saturday!!! god i am good

Fukuyama

Make a move and post pics

Gillington

Paulyh wrote: »

rent a boat.........buy 3 mini kegs of beer. and bring them with you to the middle of dublin bay. get nude, and wave to the ferries coming in. that would cheer the hell out of me!!!
ok, thats my plan for saturday!!! god i am good

Oh holy God I hope you are a girl! If not and I see you I'll be throwing rocks at the boat!

MJOR

bring her some wine and chocolate and just listen..... she may not feel like heading out on the lash just yet

Paulyh

Gillington wrote: »

Oh holy God I hope you are a girl! If not and I see you I'll be throwing rocks at the boat!

sweet, i will catch your rocks..................between my ass cheeks, and fling them right back
Oh my weekend adventure is coming together nicely.

starbelgrade

Stab her in the shoulder blade. It's not life threatening & the pain will help take her mind off things for a bit.

Paulyh

MJOR wrote: »

bring her some wine and chocolate and just listen..... she may not feel like heading out on the lash just yet

:eek: Hell No!!

Tail Wagger

Susie_Q wrote: »

Perhaps this isn't very AH-y, but I'm looking for some ideas to cheer up a friend who has just been dumped out of the blue after a 3 year relationship. Not sure what to say to her let alone how to cheer her up.

Anyone got any serious/ silly/ fun ideas?

Oh Susie, I'd be much easier to cheer up? you can send me a private message anytime?

philstar

get her some porn

KevinVonSpiel

Get some weed.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=93jQI_6G5Cw

x PyRo

Slap her in the head with a wet fish.

It may not be funny at the time, but in a few years she'll look back at it and appreciate the sheer comical value of it.

Who_owns_this?

Well, it's a horrible situation to be in, but the fact that she obviously has friends who care will make it so much more bearable.

Different people handle this kind of thing differently, and, like has already been said, it's important that you are there for her to talk to and cry to. And, yes, sometimes she will want to be alone and you should leave her to it.

However, it's no good to spend too much time mourning and distractions are good. I have to recommend go-karting. A friend of mine went through a horrific break up a while ago. We couldn't snap her out of her unhappiness. But, we had arranged to go go-karting previously and she came out with us.

Well - the difference between her before and after. She had been wallowing in misery beforehand, but you can't not feel good after zipping around a track on a kart. Plus, it was something new that she didn't connect at all to her ex. We laughed our hearts out during and after and it was great to see her so happy again.

Another thing we did was book a girlie holiday in the sun for August. Now she has something to look forward to that has nothing to do with the ex.

starbelgrade

x PyRo wrote: »

Slap her in the head with a wet fish.

It may not be funny at the time, but in a few years she'll look back at it and appreciate the sheer comical value of it.

And then tell her that there's plenty more fish in the sea!!

orourkeda

Spank her bare arse until she shoots off.

x PyRo

starbelgrade wrote: »

And then tell her that there's plenty more fish in the sea!!

B-rilliant! OP, Do it. It's the best plan ever.

Des Carter

x PyRo wrote: »

Slap her in the head with a wet fish.

It may not be funny at the time, but in a few years she'll look back at it and appreciate the sheer comical value of it.

I tried that once


worked a charm!

I also find suprise but-sex helps.

stepbar

Susie_Q wrote: »

Anyone got any serious/ silly/ fun ideas?

Golden Showers....

starbelgrade

x PyRo wrote: »

B-rilliant! OP, Do it. It's the best plan ever.

Or slap her in the face with a cod & tell her that it's the last one ever.

stepbar

starbelgrade wrote: »

Or slap her in the face with a cod & tell her that it's the last one ever.

Probably better if it was a wet cock....