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Having the bottle to ask someone out!

  • 13-05-2010 11:34am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    So this may sound strange but there is a guy at my hirdressers who i really like! He is not my usual stylist but we always have chats and flirt a little bit when i go in ..... even when i make an appointment we spend a little time chatting and see what is going on with each other .

    Yesterday i had an appointment with the usual girl who tames my mane but she was'nt there and he was my stylist . We had fun chatting and had loads in common and there was for sure flirting there . After he was done we chatted a bit and he walked me out to the street , we agreed on book swaps next time i go in blah blah . Im unemployed at the mo and he took my number to give me a heads up if he hears of any jobs being advertised , which was really cool of him !

    I may sound a little naive here , my last realtionship was long term so i'm a bit rusty and might be reading into it !! But i felt a real connection with this guy . I don't have his number so i don't know what to do about contact , i guess he has mine but is either feeling nothing for me or is not going to cross the professional boundry . Or maybe he just does not feel that way for me and was simply doing his job by being nice and chatty ??

    Its a simple problem but i would like to have your opinoins on if i should give it a go or not ? :)

    Thank you for reading!


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  • #2
    Lux23
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,134 ✭✭✭Lux23


    Maybe you should find out if he has a boyfriend first, do you know his full name? If so I would look him up on Facebook and see if you can glean any information on him. It would save you the embarrassment of asking him out in the first place if he is already attached.

    Or if he has a girlfriend, sorry I am stereotyping hairdressers a bit there.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Yeah you're right i should check him out on FB first .
    He is not gay but i am not sure if he is attached ............. as i said simple problem but you are right i should tread carefully....i still want to go there for a decent haircut lol


  • #4
    Katgurl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,145 ✭✭✭Katgurl


    hi OP,

    sounds promising - you chatted / flirted and gave him your number? Just see if he contacts you. Otherwise continue with the flirting. I don't think you need to do anything else at this stage.


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