what is the story here?

LegacyUser

So I just met this gorgeous guy 13 yrs younger than me last Sat night, by sheer accident coming out of a nightclub. We were both a bit drunk and got snogging and he walked me to my taxi.
Next day he bombarded me with text messages, it was great. He wanted to meet up again, and he was definitely interested. So eventually the texting became sexting if you know what I mean! We were both very explicit but it, err, seemed we we ended up on the same page!

Next day, I heard nothing.
Last night, I texted him, fairly innocent stuff-how was your week etc, but his tone and replies were not as keen as before.
Tonight, nothing.

Thing is, because of the age difference, I realiase that this can only be a short fling, as I am way too old for him. But he was so so keen and insistent on seeing me again, how has this suddenly changed?

LegacyUser

Right - 13 years in the diff

So I'm guessing he's 20-30 and you're 33-43.

He was a bit drunk on the night and you kissed. He was caught up in the moment and then texted you the next day while still on a drunky/buzzy "I've snogged someone" high.

As he starts to sober up, tell his friends about it, he comes to the realisation that he's been with someone who is a lot older than he's used to so he backs off.

Also, maybe also his mates started giving him grief over it - remember he's young so that will effect him more.

Cheap Thrills!

Erm, without putting to fine a point on it. Ye got to sexting, he probably 'worked out' his Cougar fantasy and is now over it.

Leave it now.

Katgurl

it could be any number of reasons:

He could have met someone else that night
He could have run out of credit & not thought it was worth the bother / expense buying more
He could have lost interest after all the sexting
His live-in girlfriend could have returned after her weekend away

you don't know if it was anythign to do with the age difference. In fact, you dont' know anything about him at all really.

Certainly nobody here can do anything more than speculate on why he wouldn't have called and based on the briefness of the (not even really) encounter I dont' know why you'd waste your time dwelling on it.

Forget about it, it was an after-club snog & some steamy texts, hardly a serious commitment.

LegacyUser

Jasminianflowers wrote: »

Thing is, because of the age difference, I realiase that this can only be a short fling, as I am way too old for him. But he was so so keen and insistent on seeing me again, how has this suddenly changed?

You know this can only be a fling, so if that is what you want.
Next Saturday text him at around midnight "Are you in town", he will have a few beers on him and reply. You can meet up and have your fling.

But you have to realise it's just about sex. Young guys are easy to pull, will do and say anything to get laid. If you want the fling with a younger guy, for the fun and as a little pick me up, do it. But it will never lead to a relationship, so don't get hurt by thinking it will and prepare to be ignored after he gets you in bed.

LegacyUser

ddjsdfkljdfkl wrote: »

You know this can only be a fling, so if that is what you want.
Next Saturday text him at around midnight "Are you in town", he will have a few beers on him and reply. You can meet up and have your fling.

But you have to realise it's just about sex. Young guys are easy to pull, will do and say anything to get laid. If you want the fling with a younger guy, for the fun and as a little pick me up, do it. But it will never lead to a relationship, so don't get hurt by thinking it will and prepare to be ignored after he gets you in bed.

Thank you Thank you so much!! Just had the night of my life!

zxcvbnm1

You can't leave us hanging like that surely !

Munstermad

Ha Ha, You go girl!!!:D