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Asking Girl Out Help

  • 10-05-2010 7:11pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi broke up 2 months back with my first love we were together since i was 17 and now 22 so havent had any experience on asking girls out as i feel i am ready to now, there is this girl who i work with (me part time while in college) and she works there full time but i am crazy bout her and have been for a long time, where i work is an office so i talk to her on this instant messaging thing that is only work pple on and one day got the balls to start talking to her on it and she responded and and we had a good chat actually and have been talkin ever since the odd time i see her in person and on facebook when i see her
    anyways long story short i wanna ask her out but have no experience of this as was with my ex for so long. Im never nervous round people either as i am very laid back (one reason why me and ex broke up) and she actually she make me nervous and i rarely see her in person to chat and want to ask her and decided its best if i do it threw this instant messaging thing. I do agree that this aint the best way but think its the only way as i cant see her in person often. I really dunno what to say to her so would like help out on this please
    Thanks

    Also peoples opinions if she rejects me as this is a possibability dont wanna get it known round work that i asked her and was rejected cause end of the day i do work there


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  • #2
    katie99
    Closed Accounts Posts: 206 ✭✭katie99


    There is no hard fast rule regards dating.
    But I take it that she is single and available.
    You have checked that out?
    If so, you could just ask casually to meet up for coffee and see what reaction you get.
    Don't worry. Girls prefer guys who are straight and direct when asking them out.
    She will know that you are interested in that you are asking her for a coffee.
    Relax and don't be heavy with her, just chat normally and if it goes well suggest that there is a film or show you'd like to see and ask her if she would go with you.
    Relax and enjoy.


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