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Friend's Brother

  • 09-05-2010 1:00pm
    #1
    Pingusdead
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5 ✭


    Went out with my friend, her brother and a bunch of other people. The night was going grand, but it was pretty obvious that he was drinking more than everyone else. Anyway, by the end I happened to end up standing alone with him and he became pretty leery and I had to pray to God that the people we were with would come back. They did thankfully and that was the end of it. There are 2 major problems with his behaviour: 1. He has a girlfriend, ever since I've known him actually. They're having problems but that doesn't give him the right to try it on. What kind of person does he think I am?! The second issue is I had told him earlier in the night about a mutual 'friend' who tried it on with me WHILE HE HAD A GIRLFRIEND and how I thought he was a prick.

    I am really annoyed. I thought he was a nice guy so it's disappointing to realise I can't be friends with him. Also I never get single guys coming on to me! Why the heck do attached guys do it?!!


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  • #2
    Chinafoot
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,894 ✭✭✭Chinafoot


    Pingusdead wrote: »
    Went out with my friend, her brother and a bunch of other people. The night was going grand, but it was pretty obvious that he was drinking more than everyone else. Anyway, by the end I happened to end up standing alone with him and he became pretty leery and I had to pray to God that the people we were with would come back. They did thankfully and that was the end of it. There are 2 major problems with his behaviour: 1. He has a girlfriend, ever since I've known him actually. They're having problems but that doesn't give him the right to try it on. What kind of person does he think I am?! The second issue is I had told him earlier in the night about a mutual 'friend' who tried it on with me WHILE HE HAD A GIRLFRIEND and how I thought he was a prick.

    I am really annoyed. I thought he was a nice guy so it's disappointing to realise I can't be friends with him. Also I never get single guys coming on to me! Why the heck do attached guys do it?!!


    Sounds lke he was hammered. You said he got leery. What did he actually do? Did he try to touch you? Kiss you?

    Tbh, with the information you've provided it sounds like you're overreacting. He's probably mortified if he remembers.


  • #3
    lillywhite1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 62 ✭✭lillywhite1


    Sounds like the drink may have played a part in his behaviour which is not to excuse it. Also the over drinking may be a symptom of some problem he is having with his relationship and he does not want to face it.

    Now that is of course to try and look at it from his perspective. And also I would not write someone off because of getting drunk and and behaving improperly. Though once again that is not to excuse it.

    But to answer your question. I dont know why attached guys hit on you. Thoug in this instance it is because he was partly drink induced.

    I dont think it could be anything you are doing though.

    When is the last time a single guy hit on you?


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