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How do you know if someone still loves you :(

  • 08-05-2010 02:42PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi guys...

    So my question is as it is the title. I dont know if my bf still loves me :( He says 'I love you' all the time but I genuinely think he doesn't anymore. He looses the head at me over nothing, all I seem to do is annoy him and 'wreck his head'. I feel like nothing I do is right and he never talks to me properly anymore.

    I dont know how to ask? Maybe I am scared of the answer. I love him so much.

    Has anyone been in this situation? I dont want to loose him but how can I go on thinking my partner doesn't love me.

    Any advice would be great! Thanks a mil


Comments

  • #2
    Faith
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,662 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    Have you told him your concerns? That's what I'd start with.


  • #3
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Hey OP,

    Tell him how you feel and why. I wouldn't ask him if he loves you because you've said he says he does and you don't believe it. So concentrate on whatever behaviour makes you think he doesn't love you or is falling out of love and ask about the cause of that.

    Best of luck.


  • #4
    C_J
    Closed Accounts Posts: 32 ✭C_J


    I was told "I love you" two days before I was dumped.
    It's easy say the words but if his actions aren't backing them up, then I'd be worried.
    You just need to sit down and talk to him. Tell him calmly that you have some concerns and would like to him about your relationship and how ye are interacting lately. Don't bombard him with questions, let him do the talking and hopefully you'll be able to get back on track. Either way you'll get your answer. Good Luck!


  • #5
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Lovelesss wrote: »
    I dont know how to ask? Maybe I am scared of the answer. I love him so much.

    Aw you poor thing. You have to discuss this with him. No point in repeatedly pressing what I call the "Denial Button" because if it's not working it is not working and better to face up to that then have it drag on and ruin your confidence while it slowly and painfully dies.


  • #6
    StarryMoon0
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 161 ✭✭StarryMoon0


    And in my experience, all chances he won't say what it is untill he really HAS to.

    Try and talk to him. Really listen if he does talk. Pay attention. How well do you know him? Do you know when he is lieing? Do you know his body language? Watch his eyes, his hands. Is he looking away, and fiddling with his fingers?

    You have an amazing gift called intuition, use it. YOu may not like it..god knows I ignored mine for years..only to have my world come crashing down on me. I'm not going to say if you "feel" something is wrong that you up and leave..thats a hard thing to do..too many people throw that advice around these days..only you can decide how to procede.

    Take Care
    Starry


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