Advice Needed

LegacyUser

I will try and make this short if I can.. need advice and thoughts on this from Male/Female please..

Im a separated guy in my early 40s, I have kids but they live with there Mother.

I met this girl that I really like she is mid 30s single no kids.. was engaged a few years ago..
Anyway I first met her a few yrs ago and we seemed to get on really well, I didnt give her the full story about my past relationship or kids the first nite we met as it was in a Pub/Club and did'nt think it was appropriate..
She did find out from friends and at that stage she said we should just be friends as I had too much baggage etc..
We kept in touch textin and bumped into each other a few times over the next 12 months.
Then we met around Xmas for coffee and she said she would like to see more of me and would we go out for a proper night, so we arranged to meet the following weekend and went out and had a great time, But next day when we were chattin again she said no things are not right can we just remain friends, So we did until she suggested we go out again and we did went to movies and kissed after and she said she really liked me and could we see more of each other... we had a few more nights out and got on well,
Then we were meeting to spend weekend together on a Friday nite, We were together Friday night, She could'nt go away as she had stuff to do Saturday and went off and said will see you later in the evening, She never showed up that night only sent a text saying she was not sure about things and her heart was'nt in it.. she would'nt answer her phone or reply to any texts I sent.. until a few days later and then she apologised and we arranged to meet again, which we did.. and the same thing happened again.. This has happened on 3 occasions..... I'm totally confused
She says she really likes me etc etc.... I can't figure her out...

ilovetosing

delete her number dude!!! plenty more fish who wont wreck your head like this one! Have a little self respect and tell her where to go because you are WAYYYYY to old to be playing these games!

Hope it works out mate!

How Strange

OP, forget about her. That's not appropriate behaviour. Next time you hear from her tell her you don't want any contact with her. She's a head wrecker and you deserve better.

Miss Fluff

Honest answer? She sounds totally unhinged! Delete her number, she doesn't know what she wants so don't hang around to find out, she is behaving like a total disrespectful cow.

LegacyUser

Thanks for all the replies... There has been no contact since Saturday, Do you think I should contact her and politely tell her what I think of her ?

How Strange

Cofused wrote: »

Thanks for all the replies... There has been no contact since Saturday, Do you think I should contact her and politely tell her what I think of her ?

Eh, no. Just leave it alone. This lady seems to love the drama so don't indulge her.

Life is too short for this sort of crap. Forget about her and look forward to meeting someone else.

Taltos

How Strange wrote: »

Eh, no. Just leave it alone. This lady seems to love the drama so don't indulge her.

Life is too short for this sort of crap. Forget about her and look forward to meeting someone else.

+1
She is not an eejit or a child - do not think she needs you to spell it out for her.
Just ignore her - don't respond and write her off.
Otherwise this cycle will just keep repeating and in a few months you will be back on here asking why is she treating you like a door mat.