Flirting or not?

confoosed

Ive met this guy a few monhts ago and he seems raelly nice. Funny, friendly, etc.

we recently swoped numbers a few days ago and last nite he txtd me after hed had a few drinks. some of them i taught could have been a bit flirty but im not sure...

1 exampel is when he said - true size matters but the best like to use things properly
and when he sd - wat wud u prefer - size or technique? u decide which way to use it

thing is,the txting bak and foreward was pretty normal up till then tlkin abt his nite drinkin and cars/bags/fones until he threw that stuff in...

dont want to get my hopes up too much incaes ive misred the meanin of the txts... what do ye think??? advise wud be much wellcomed.

Nikbik

If a fella is into you, He's into you - I spent my early 20's with my head tormented with if's and but's and maybe's and analysing every text i got off a fella.The way i see it now is If he's into you he will make it clear so i wouldnt read too much into a text. Hope it works out for you

convert

I'd agree with that completely. If a guy likes you he'll let you know and make his move... Don't stress over it and try not read into things too much - it'll wreck you're head.

Des Carter

Hey I have to agree with the whole not overanylizing the text thing. I mean its sometimes hard to know what way a txt is meant (i.e tone, seriousness, humour etc). This is especially true when the txter is drunk.

However I dont neccessarily agree with the hell let you know bit as he might have feelings for you but wont tell you as he may think you dont feel the same or fear of rejection or afraid it may ruin your friendship etc. Also people often tend to be more truthful after a few drinks.

So id say forget about the text just take it that he was jokeing and if your into him you should start flirting with him but if your not then just forget about the whole thing.

Burial

Why don't you just ask him to go for a few drinks with you some night? That way you'll know or not if he does or doesn't like you... Why wait for him to make a move and have you questioning everything he does?

Denimgirl

confoosed wrote: »

Ive met this guy a few monhts ago and he seems raelly nice. Funny, friendly, etc.

we recently swoped numbers a few days ago and last nite he txtd me after hed had a few drinks. some of them i taught could have been a bit flirty but im not sure...

1 exampel is when he said - true size matters but the best like to use things properly
and when he sd - wat wud u prefer - size or technique? u decide which way to use it

thing is,the txting bak and foreward was pretty normal up till then tlkin abt his nite drinkin and cars/bags/fones until he threw that stuff in...

dont want to get my hopes up too much incaes ive misred the meanin of the txts... what do ye think??? advise wud be much wellcomed.

i would'nt ask him out for a drink, let him he may be a player and want friends with benefits!!be careful!!If he wants to the privilage to have you in his company let him ask you out by the sound of his texts he's not shy so let him do the running but be careful i've met guys that go on like him in the past trying to get ye in the sack!!

borninthe80s

I definitely agree with letting him ask you out first, if he wants you he will do it! That's just putting it bluntly. I don't agree with some people's opinions about how men are shy etc. Bottom line is if they want you they will go to any lengths! Hope it all works out!

Tristram

If you like him go for it. This business about guys having to make the first move is an absolute crock.

HalloweenJack

I'm a lad and I'll tell you, some lads can be shy.

To me, those texts sound as if he's testing the water - he just wants to see how you react to them so he can get an idea if you like him.

Also, if he did this after a few drinks, then I reckon he is pretty shy or he's maybe initimidated because he likes you and doesn't know if you like him too. Either way, if he only did after he had a few drinks, it suggests that he's nervous enough about it, imo.