Dating woes...or am i just worrying too much?

LegacyUser

Posting anon here but i've been dating a girl like 2 weeks now, we've been having fun and things are going alright i hope...this is where i get worried.

She hardly ever texts or responds to messages on facebook but is always pleased to see me, we click, we can have a laugh and we are very compatible as far as kissing goes...but still this lack of contact between us is sort of worrying as from what i know, she is not dating anyone else and we were meant to meet up this week, now i aint sure if that'll happen. I really do miss her company at this stage

The last time i seen her was on saturday night before i kissed her for like 10-15 mins, said goodnight and left.

Should i really be worrying? I am new to the dating scene again even though i am in my twenties (2nd time giving it a shot as i gave up the first time i tried it years ago).

Kiera

People are different. Some talk all the time, night and day and others just when they need to. I wouldn’t worry about it tbh. If its stressing you out so much then just ask her where you stand?

entropi

Dude...assuming that you ARE a dude, dont worry about it too much she might be busy or whatever, might have no credit or might not be able to use a computer due to being busy...

I say wait it out another day or two and see if she gets in contact, if not then you do the contact once again and as Kiera mentions, try to find out where you two stand.

showgirl

First Op can i just say how its not so cool to be communicating with this girl via Facebook! its early days and i wouldnt be worried about the lack of text messages - just get to know her face to face when ye are with each other! the texting will come at a later stage!

best of luck with it

remember the game is not to come across too cool!! ( even though i dont agree with the rules of the game but apparently its how dating exists )

LegacyUser

Just noticed this crept back up and i forgot to reply...

thanks to you guys for the advice, we have met up again since then and had some fun. She basically knows the story about how i truly feel about her through talking and finally texting i've not had my reply yet but she is usually very busy which is why she was unable to respond to me in the first place.:(

Kiera and Master of Nothing: I have let her know where i stand, and asked her what is to be of us in future.

showgirl: we get along pretty well talking face to face, but it is hard to not play it so cool when we hardly get to see each other at all...:(

I'll have to come back and let you guys know how things turned out when i find out myself, thank you again.

vicecreamsundae

hey OP
my two cents is that, even when i meet someone i like, having them text me and facebook me a lot is a huge turn off. it feels really clingy and a bit possessive.

apart from that, some people send 20 + text messages a day to their friends... im more likely to maybe send 2. she might just not be into texting etc.

forget the texts/facebook and just focus on the dates.