Sex: 2 questions

LegacyUser

I'm looking for some real life answers here off the lads. So, assuming that you are in a relationship....

1) How often do you and your parner have sex?

2) How much sex would you like to have, if you could have as much as you wanted?

randylonghorn

Dave279 wrote: »

I'm looking for some real life answers here off the lads. So, assuming that you are in a relationship....

1) How often do you and your parner have sex?

2) How much sex would you like to have, if you could have as much as you wanted?

Not currently in a relationship, but ...

1) In my experience, varied with a lot of things ... age; partner; how well we were getting on; tiredness / workload / stress; etc. etc.

At 17, 3 times a day, 7 days a week could still leave me feeling horny at times. Now, a couple of days on that schedule, and I'd be damn glad of a day or two off!

Some partners thought that type of schedule was great, others thought 20 minutes once a week should be enough ... and a couple left me begging for mercy! I assume it varies for men as well.

Tiredness and stress will definitely be a factor, for both genders I presume, but more *obviously* shall we say for men. That said, if a woman is willing to be a little patient with a man under those circumstances, and give him a little time to relax and get into gear, sex is truly nature's valium.

2) Well, the first factor still applies, see the comment re: 17 and now. That said, in an ideal world, had I the stamina and no worries about earning a living, I could cheerfully spend a lot of my time having sex! Well, I suspect it might pall after a year or two, but I'd be willing to conduct that experiment ...

But that kind of world doesn't exist outside a porno, the Playboy mansion or similar ...


I suspect the answers you get to both questions will vary quite a lot to be honest.

Otis Driftwood

randylonghorn wrote: »

Not currently in a relationship, but ...

1) In my experience, varied with a lot of things ... age; partner; how well we were getting on; tiredness / workload / stress; etc. etc.

At 17, 3 times a day, 7 days a week could still leave me feeling horny at times. Now, a couple of days on that schedule, and I'd be damn glad of a day or two off!

Some partners thought that type of schedule was great, others thought 20 minutes once a week should be enough ... and a couple left me begging for mercy! I assume it varies for men as well.

Tiredness and stress will definitely be a factor, for both genders I presume, but more *obviously* shall we say for men. That said, if a woman is willing to be a little patient with a man under those circumstances, and give him a little time to relax and get into gear, sex is truly nature's valium.

2) Well, the first factor still applies, see the comment re: 17 and now. That said, in an ideal world, had I the stamina and no worries about earning a living, I could cheerfully spend a lot of my time having sex! Well, I suspect it might pall after a year or two, but I'd be willing to conduct that experiment ...

But that kind of world doesn't exist outside a porno, the Playboy mansion or similar ...


I suspect the answers you get to both questions will vary quite a lot to be honest.

QFT.
Its been different with nearly every single partner Ive had.

Zulu

Be aware:
1) People (generally) will always tell you more than they're actually having.
2) People (generally) will always tell you the want more.

speedboatchase

Dave279 wrote: »

I'm looking for some real life answers here off the lads. So, assuming that you are in a relationship....

1) How often do you and your parner have sex?

2) How much sex would you like to have, if you could have as much as you wanted?

1) Once or twice a week, although bear in mind we don't live together and she is usually only able to stay the night once a week

2) My non-living together situation as it is means I'm happy enough with where we are although if I go a week or longer without sex I'm pretty annoyed. If we were living together I would want to have sex at least 4 times a week. Our friends who are a couple recently moved in together though and apparently NEVER have sex, the gf in the relationship told my gf that "he doesn't really mind at all" which from speaking to him months ago, is a complete lie - but she has him fairly under the thumb

krudler

Once or twice a week at the mo, we only see each other maybe 2 nights though, we dont always do it, she may be on her period or we just wind up not doing it (an evening together without sex is nice too) Ideally I'd like to do it maybe 2 or 3 times more a week, and usually when we go away for a weekend to get some quality alone time we barely leave the hotel room I've stayed in about 8 hotels over the last 18 months with her and 4 of those I couldnt even tell you what the bar looked like in them

DubMedic

Zulu wrote: »

Be aware:
1) People (generally) will always tell you more than they're actually having.
2) People (generally) will always tell you the want more.

What's the saying.. it goes something like:
the ones talking about it the most, are the ones doing it the least?.

Greyfox

Dave279 wrote: »

I'm looking for some real life answers here off the lads. So, assuming that you are in a relationship....

1) 2 or 3 times a week

2) 3 times a week and I'm happy with that

Stacks Mad

Stress and tirderness have a huge part to play with me !

Once or twice a week at the moment but as above we only see each other 2 to 3 evening a week.

But when we live together I'd love to increase that.

shoes34

with my ex we would see each other at least 4 nights a week and would have sex the minimum of 3 times a night, actually when we broke up and slept together afterwards we had sex about 8 times - sorry not boasting here but we both had a massive sex drive.

LD 50

I'm single at the moment and haven't had sex in a while so I want as much as I can get.

In my previous relationships it was pretty much the same. Id wqnt as much as i could get We'd meet up and go out 3-4, maybe 5 nights a week, and probably have sex maybe twice a night, with another roll in the morning. I have a huge sexual appetite, and given the chance I'd want to go a lot more than that. But regular sex would sate my appetite for a day or so.

quicklickpaddy

Me and my Gf are 19 and she has her own apartment so quite a lot... Not everyday but I'd still say about 7 times a week...

I'm definitely satisfied with that!

cowzerp

DubMedic wrote: »

What's the saying.. it goes something like:
the ones talking about it the most, are the ones doing it the least?.

Thats not true.

not in all cases anyway.

Otis Driftwood

Sebastien De Valmont,you were warned by another mod about posting PUA rubbish before so I have deleted your post.tGC is not the place for that garbage.Please bear that in mind when posting here in future,thanks.

Ned

Mick Daly

Dave279 wrote: »

I'm looking for some real life answers here off the lads. So, assuming that you are in a relationship....

1) How often do you and your parner have sex?

2) How much sex would you like to have, if you could have as much as you wanted?

1) I'd usually get a sniff about twice in the week.

2) I can't get enough. I wish I could get a sniff of her more often. She's in the bed and I'm trying to pull off her knickers but she won't let me.

CluelessGirl

Mick Daly wrote: »

1) I'd usually get a sniff about twice in the week.

2) I can't get enough. I wish I could get a sniff of her more often. She's in the bed and I'm trying to pull off her knickers but she won't let me.

Yeah well you can hardly blame her the way you de-base her in your posts.

Revolting a creep like you squirming all over me!

Mick Daly

CluelessGirl wrote: »

Yeah well you can hardly blame her the way you de-base her in your posts.

Revolting a creep like you squirming all over me!

Well what way do you do it?

Also you are a woman and don't understand the caveman qualities we have. We do be ragin' for a sniff of the gee.

sam34

Clueless girl, leave out the personal abuse please

Mick Daly, this isnt AH, please bear that in mind when posting

Elbow

speedboatchase wrote: »

1) Once or twice a week, although bear in mind we don't live together and she is usually only able to stay the night once a week

2) My non-living together situation as it is means I'm happy enough with where we are although if I go a week or longer without sex I'm pretty annoyed. If we were living together I would want to have sex at least 4 times a week. Our friends who are a couple recently moved in together though and apparently NEVER have sex, the gf in the relationship told my gf that "he doesn't really mind at all" which from speaking to him months ago, is a complete lie - but she has him fairly under the thumb

Pretty much the same with myself and the girlfriend, although we prob see 5 or so nights a week but usually have a sex free night

Elmer Blooker

Those who are married (with kids) don't seem to be contributing to this thread for some reason or other?

Mick Daly

Elmer Blooker wrote: »

Those who are married (with kids) don't seem to be contributing to this thread for some reason or other?

We all know the auld sex drive dies after the woman has been stretched. So I've heard anyway.

sam34

mick, final warning, this isnt AH, please dont post like that in here again, or you'll be banned

Morphie

Dave279 wrote: »

I'm looking for some real life answers here off the lads. So, assuming that you are in a relationship....

1) How often do you and your parner have sex?

2) How much sex would you like to have, if you could have as much as you wanted?

1) I like to have a day off every now and then. If you do it everyday all the time the sensation is sort of dulled down, less excitement.

2) I'm fine the way it is. I used to like doing it twice a day, looking back at which was only 3 years ago.. I can't see how I managed it.

Faith

1. With my ex, we only saw each other at weekends usually, but it probably still averaged out at 3 times a week. There were times it might only be once, other times it would be 6/7/8

2. I'd like as much sex as humanly possible . Honestly, I'd like it about 3 times a day, or maybe twice (once in the morning and once at night).

Madame Razz

He works away Monday to Thursday which hampers things a little; but nonetheless we don't do so badly. It's a very important part of our relationship for us tho; so we try to make the effort.

2/3/4 times daily when he's around; occasionally more but it all depends on what else is going on; minimum 2 times daily tho.

I would like it more; even when he is around; I suspect he's glad in a way that he works away for a portion of the week; I'd have him plagued otherwise:D


I am happy with things as they are tho:p

challengemaster

randylonghorn wrote: »

Not currently in a relationship, but ...

1) In my experience, varied with a lot of things ... age; partner; how well we were getting on; tiredness / workload / stress; etc. etc.

At 17, 3 times a day, 7 days a week could still leave me feeling horny at times. Now, a couple of days on that schedule, and I'd be damn glad of a day or two off!

Ah now, you'd be damn glad of once a year by now! Ha! :pac:

Jesus, why didn't I spot this earlier...

1) Often enough
2) I'm happy

what else matters?

randylonghorn

challengemaster wrote: »

Ah now, you'd be damn glad of once a year by now! Ha! :pac:

It's not that long ago since you would have been damn glad of once a year yourself!

Recon

Been in a few long term relationships. Usually had sex quite often, 2 or 3 times a night/morning after a few nights a week, with a day break in between every now and then. Odd time might go a week or so without it. Between her period, work, being busy, etc.

That usually worked out pretty alright and I was happy with it.

PeakOutput

when im in a relationship and they are around its probably once a day on average, no less than once every two days and some days more than once obviously

how much would i like? well in a relationship once a day is great. out of a relationship? once a week or every two weeks is nice i guess

drunkymonkey

Dave279 wrote: »

I'm looking for some real life answers here off the lads. So, assuming that you are in a relationship....

1) How often do you and your parner have sex?

2) How much sex would you like to have, if you could have as much as you wanted?

1) Everytime we see eachother pretty much, which is 3/4 days a week.

2) I think i'm having a comfortable amount, we're planning to move in with eachother in a couple of months so i dont know how its gonna change!