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  • 26-04-2010 1:42pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I'll try to be short and Im not even sure that this is he right forum but....
    Ive been seeing a girl for going on 5 months now, everything great, really get on, have great fun etc. haven't even come close to having a fight or anything, it really is going very well and I am extremely fond of her.

    The thing is im not really used to being in a serious monogomous relationship (it has been a very long time) and i am starting to worry that things may be beginning to fizzle out, now I may be wrong but I don't know...it is playing on my mind. she has said nothing of the sort and I do believe that she likes me as much as I do her!

    So I was wondering does anyone have any opinions on this, like is this a normal transition at this stage of a relationship and also would anyone have any original ideas for something fun to surprise her with doing this long weekend?

    Thanks


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  • #2
    whatsamsn
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    Wonder why no one has gotten back to this. It can be some what natural after a few months to feel like this. Not everyone would but I can understand Op as to why you would. You clearly have feelings for this girl. You dont want things to just fizzle.

    Best advice is to ask yourself is this feeling you are getting because this is a new good thing? (serious monogomous relationship - you say its been a while since your last)

    or is this something that your gut is telling you? ... subtly like.


    But as for spicing things up. In a relationship you should always try and do new things, or be unpredicable :) Never let a relationship just get into a routine. Eg, always cinema on a thursday, drinks on a saturday :P


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I'm in a similar boat to you OP, I've been with my boyfriend over 4 months now and am starting to worry that we might be getting into a rut...despite everyone telling me it's far too soon! I suppose it is only natural once the intial buzz of being together wears off. I work fulltime while my bf is in college so while we've not yet settled into a boring pattern or anything, it is difficult to be spontaneous. I'm mad about him though and we do make the effort to do nice things for each other. I think it's lovely that you want to surprise her over the weekend, perhaps if the weather is nice take a day trip somewhere?


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