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Don't know what to expect

  • 24-04-2010 3:36pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    So heres the thing: Ive been going out with this girl for a few weeks now. Everything was going great, we have alot of same interests and things in common. I was really happy when i was spending time with her and she seemed happy aswell, but she is just after telling me that she needs time (she has L.C. exams in june btw) and she doesnt want to have a bf before the summer because she is going away for two months and that she wouldnt be able to be without a bf for all that time.

    So we talked and we agreed that we will be together after she is back. But for some reason im having doubts that it will happen, because we have only been together for such a short time and we were still getting to know eachother and stuff. But on the other hand i hope we will be back together because there was so much potential in our relationship and we had so much in common.

    So now i really dont know what to expect. Should i forget it and move on? or should i hope that our relationship will continue when she is back?

    Thnx in advance for advice and for reading this terribly structured post :P


Comments

  • #2
    kjl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,127 ✭✭✭kjl


    hmmmm, sound like a easy let down to me. She wants to be single for her big post LC holiday.


  • #3
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Sounds like she wants to be single after her exams and for her trip away. It's not to say that you don't have the potential to get back together, there is a chance that you could, but probably best to just get on with things yourself and if it happens it happens, i.e. don't put your own life on hold until she comes back


  • #4
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    She wants to be single and that is her indirect way of telling you. It's possible you could get back together after she's done travelling but if I were you, I'd be preparing myself to hear that she's been with other guys whilst she's away. Otherwise, why would she want to be single?

    Sorry to say that OP, hopefully it all works out.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    grandmaster wrote: »
    I'd be preparing myself to hear that she's been with other guys whilst she's away. Otherwise, why would she want to be single?

    Ye, i was thinking that aswell. She breaks up with me, so that if she is with someone its justified or maybe theres someone else already?

    It is a let down, because i was really looking forward to our relationship developing. I really had my hopes up, probably a little too much.


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