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  • 24-04-2010 11:25am
    #1
    karaokeman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,328 ✭✭✭


    I have been friends with this girl for 3 and a half years now. Since I met her we have been catching up and talking say every 2-4 weeks as friends like. It was only about a year ago that we started talking lots.

    Around a year ago I asked this girl’s friends all on a group outing to Liffey Valley and she came along (Note that I was the only lad and there was 6 girls, only 2 of which I didn‘t know personally). Naturally I am very shy and she was the only one who really spoke to me that day but she seemed comfortable at the time hanging out with me.

    Then August last year I went to Eddie Rockets with this girl and one of her friends and one of my friends (Eg 2 boys and 2 girls) and that went well too. Since then I have not asked her out any more times and I sort of lost my courage for asking her on a single date.

    It was only since last Christmas when we were both busy with school and stuff that we haven’t been talking as much.

    I used to think she may have liked me more than a friend but its only since we’ve not been in contact as much that I’ve been getting mixed signals and I’m not 100% sure anymore. I have never and will never give up hope that when it is the right time I might end up going out with her.

    I want to keep in contact but I don’t know how to tell her/ how to do it. I find it difficult sometimes because we are in different schools and she doesn’t live in my hometown. I have also lost contact with her other friends I used to talk to. I’m wondering should I say hey the next time were both on msn or text sometime.

    I’m nervous because about a year ago I used to contact her like this whenever I’m bored and need to tell my news to someone. I was thinking if she felt uncomfortable about me contacting too much then it would be better to wait until she contacts me again (which she has done a few times). Last time we texted was about a month ago.

    Any suggestions?


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  • #2
    Novella
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    Text her :)

    You've nothing to lose. You miss talking to her, so talk! You said you lost contact because you were both busy. It sounds like she liked you before, I mean, she hung out with you. Even if she only liked you as a friend, you'll never find out unless you speak to her again so get in touch.


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