Is she interested?

jambon29

I met a girl last week in a nightclub. We got on well, kissed and went back to her place. We were getting on well but all of a sudden she freaked out and kicked me out. We were both drunk and i didnt expect to hear from her again. The following day she text me to apologise and say she was out of order. I text her saying it was grand and left it at that. About 3 days after she text me again saying she meant it when she said she was sorry and was all apologies. Do people think she is interested or just embarassed.

kjl

she just didn't want a one night stand, give the poor girl a call if you like her.

oldwan

i agree!! she obviously liked you, brought you back, then realised she wasnt going to have a one night stand!
fair play to her i say!
she text you few days later, thats to see what you would do/say.

if you like her suggest meeting up for couple of drinks, see what she says

seenitall

She is interested.

BTW, if you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to understand that a girl who texts you twice in a week after having made out with you is interested. (I'm not having a go here, but genuinely seems to me you should be a bit more clued in in what happened there - i.e. she didn't want a one night stand, and her obvious interest in you after the kicking you out for that reason, is all the evidence you need.)

jambon29

kjl wrote: »

she just didn't want a one night stand, give the poor girl a call if you like her.

Not really true, we were in the middloe of doing it when she freaked out. Told me to leave. We were both after a nice bit of drink.

C_J

If she was embarassed she'd be deleting your number and trying to lock away the memories of freaking out in a very very dark corner of her brain!

Imo she only freaked out coz she realised that sex was definately going to happen and starting talking herself out of it with a load of "will he/won't he respect me? is it only a one nighter or do i want more? etc etc. Women's minds when it comes to sex with someone they like after they meet them can be an absolute minefield....you have no idea haha:D

She's interested, that's why she txtd a few days later. Chances are though, since you didn't take the bait at that stage and ask her out, as far as she's concerned the ball is in your court now. You prob won't hear from again unless you make some move by getting in touch. From the sounds of it, you like her so where's the harm? Go for it, if that's what you want to do:)

entropi

As it was already mentioned here OP, she was freaked out about the fact she didnt really want a one night stand, hence the kicking out. If she sent a text to you 3 days later still saying sorry I would say thats a definite indication she didnt forget you.

Give her a call, really soon and try to arrange a date...sure whats the worst that can happen?