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  • 22-04-2010 2:31pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    A guy whom I would have considered a Very close friend for the last six years, let me down recently..

    I got married in Feb and he and his girlfriend where invited..He was all talk about how much he was looking forward to it and how his girlfriend had a Hen party the night before in Dundalk But that, they would be down in time for the wedding,cause there was no way they would be missing the wedding...

    Anyways, The week coming up to the wedding I running form pillar to post (as you do!) getting stuff,So I didnt really make that much in line of phone calls to friends etc..
    On the day of the wedding I knew someone was missing, But just couldnt think who..And then when we got to the hotel, I realised he was missing...I kinda put it to the back of my mind for the rest of the day and didnt think much more about it...On the Monday after the wedding I rang his phone but got no answer and that has been over two months ago!

    He was sick a towards the end of 2009 and I thought maybe he had a relapse or somthing..But I was looking on his girlfriends Facebook and saw that they had been a wedding a few weeks after ours and he doesn't look a man who was sick..

    Should I man up and ring him or just move on?

    I am kinda annoyed that he never rang or even a text/email...


Comments

  • #2
    minidazzler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    While it would be sh1t to throw a 6 year friendship down the swanny, it sounds like he already has. Move on, he's a dick.

    You have other friends, he's not worth your efforts if he can't make it to one of the biggest days in your life.


  • #3
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    Why waste your time?

    Not too sure that he will man up now and be honest with you. Just chalk it up to him either being
    a) under the thumb
    b) weak
    c) just not bothered
    d) an opportunistic friend - you know the ones that are all around you when you are on the market...

    Forget about him and move on.
    He may get in touch when he is single - he might not.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thank Mini..

    I kinda had come to that conclusion myself, I think I will do that..and just draw a line under it!


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