is he interested or not ...

greengirl31

Hey folks ...
I need some advice again please ... This dating thing is wrecking my head !!!!
I decided to start internet dating and after getting a few tips form posters here decided not to hang around in terms of meeting up ...
So started chatting to this guy and after a week or so asked if i wanted to meet up so I agreed and we met up last friday. We were both really nervous but it went well and we had a good night. He called the next day and all was good. we had talked about meeting up during the week and on Sunday he brought it up again so I said if Tuesday still suits I'd like to . yesterday then more txts, how was my day etc then it just stopped ... I txt later yesterday evening to see what he wanted to do and have heard nothing back ...
Should I txt him again or just leave it and presume he's changed his mind ....

LegacyUser

Hey Op in my experience best to just leave it dont contact him he knows your number
let him call or text you, he will either make a firm date or if he doesnt your head is free of him and you can go and find someone that will want to go on date number 2

Good luck

ps I think he probably has a good reason for not getting in touch so play it cool

ash23

greengirl31 wrote: »

Hey folks ...
I need some advice again please ... This dating thing is wrecking my head !!!!
I decided to start internet dating and after getting a few tips form posters here decided not to hang around in terms of meeting up ...
So started chatting to this guy and after a week or so asked if i wanted to meet up so I agreed and we met up last friday. We were both really nervous but it went well and we had a good night. He called the next day and all was good. we had talked about meeting up during the week and on Sunday he brought it up again so I said if Tuesday still suits I'd like to . yesterday then more txts, how was my day etc then it just stopped ... I txt later yesterday evening to see what he wanted to do and have heard nothing back ...
Should I txt him again or just leave it and presume he's changed his mind ....

I wouldn't text him again. But I wouldn't dismiss him either. Unless you haven't heard from him by this evening.

He might have ran out of credit, lost his phone, got distracted etc etc.
Or yeah, he might have just cut you off. Some of them do that.

Give it a while longer. He might be thinking you've confirmed the date for tonight so no real need to keep confirming it.
If he doesn't contact you later I'd cut my losses and move onto the next one.