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  • 15-04-2010 11:31am
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    going unreg for this in a bit of a pickle and could use some advise .
    I finished a 12 year relationship and wasn't interested in any thing serious . My ex and I hadn't had sex for the best part of a year and I missed sex but didn't want anything serious so I joined an online site where people meet just to have sex . I met some really nice people and some good friends . One guy in particular I really clicked with and started seeing a lot of . I am really into him and he told me last night on the phone that he is mad about me and wants us to stop seeing other people and for us both to stop using the site . I am delighted , but I am worried . i guess what I am asking is can it work between us considering how we met each other ? I have told him I need to think about it but he is going to want a answer today my ex really did a number on me and I want to be sure before I get into anything serious .


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
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    Hi OP this sounds like me and my OH it is almost exactly the same story we are together now 4 years and getting married this summer . So yes it can work out you have nothing to loose and everything to gain best of luck


  • #3
    LegacyUser
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    how you met is really no different to how nearly every couple starts. boy meets girl, nothing serious is planned, they fool around, then start hanging out, one or both wants more, then either they become a couple or part ways.....

    u both met because you wanted a bit of fun - that's usually the norm for everyone. I can't think of a single friend that met their partner with any other mindset then 'ah he's fairly good looking, seems sound, i'll go on a date with him and find out more'.....same as u two. hate to tell ya, but starting out, it's usually all about the physical attraction/lust/desperate need to get laid :)

    so with u guys it was more blatant and up front in the sex side of things....though prob not much more than ur average club scene.....u'll be fine, u both want the same things now, have gotten to know each other, know that sex wise things work, in fact, ur probably better off in ur position than most people who haven't been so honest from the start....

    good luck and go for it :)


  • #4
    stackerman
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    to good to be true wrote: »
    I am delighted , but I am worried . i guess what I am asking is can it work between us considering how we met each other ?

    Why not ?
    He is the one that suggested it, so if i were you I'd live a little and go for it. Lifes too short to be always looking back.
    Best of luck


  • #5
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Of course it can work OP! DELIGHTED for you that he feels the same way, I love happy stories on PI :) People meet their partners in the most unlikely circumstances. How you met is kind of irrelevant really, you both want to take things further and life is too short to let that pass you by OP.


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